Men; would you be mad?

Asked By: allow47 18-21, F 3 months ago

If your girlfriend got pregnant even while on birth control and decided to get an abortion and didn't tell you? All abortion issues and opinions put aside.

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Posted by Vicky4932 Feb 12th, 2013 at 8:53AM

Yes ofcourse... she should not hide it.i deserve to know that i hve such powers that i can fail birth control pills

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Posted by ChipmunkErnie Feb 12th, 2013 at 8:59AM

No, but I might be hurt she didn't ask my opinion

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Posted by solequest Feb 12th, 2013 at 8:56AM

I know that a lot of men get mad about this. Irrational, I think. Me: I would be hurt by what would seem to me to be a serious lapse in communication. However, ethically, I believe the ultimate decision is the woman's and hers alone. Therefore, if she makes this choice without consulting the father, that is her right. If the couple is married. . . my thoughts are less clear about that.

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Reply by allow47 Feb 12th, 2013 at 8:59AM

Very insightful.
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Posted by AEther2 Feb 12th, 2013 at 10:46AM

I would probably be mad because she didn't tell me but nothing that a short talk couldn't cure.

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Posted by tlb1414 Feb 12th, 2013 at 10:34AM

i would be very very pissed

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Posted by bmaninca Feb 12th, 2013 at 10:05AM

I would be a little on the devastated side... especially if things seemed to be working out really well..

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Posted by charles849 Feb 12th, 2013 at 9:32AM

it happened to me except she decided to keep the baby , we dated for 2 years and since we both was near 50 years old , she was 47 at the time I was 50 , I thought we were on the same page when it came to birth control . Little did I know she was contemplating her future as far as having a income , what's easier than having a baby

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Posted by mouse2001 Feb 12th, 2013 at 8:57AM

NOOOOOO i will be HAPPY ...

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