My 15 year old wants to date?

Asked By: Blindingsmile 31-35, F 4 months ago

Damn dont ya just wanna save them the heartache :-(

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Posted by DozerDan Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:13PM

For most of human history, thousands of generations, young women her age were getting married and having babies. (Hint: that is why the age for bleeding is where it is) Of course she wants to be recognized as a woman and get on with her life as her available baby making years are rapidly sliding by.

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Posted by Praxis Jan 5th, 2013 at 4:49PM

Oooops and so it begins. Sorry 4 u

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Posted by MsTarantism Jan 5th, 2013 at 3:14PM

You can all say it's too young- but it really depends on the individual. I begun dating at 14- and i'm still with the same guy to this day.

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Posted by clintonbill Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:55PM

At least she's telling you

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Posted by pennynoodles Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:33PM

And you have to let her do just that. You will be her safety net for many years to come, it's the privilege of being a parent :O)

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Posted by WarriorMom Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:28PM

When my girls started dating I would always ask if the boy had a driver's license & want to see it. After writing down the info, I would ask to check the condition of his car & to see proof of insurance. My daughters didn't like it, but the guys always knew I cared what happened to them & I was serious. I'm happy I did it.

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Posted by need2care Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:24PM

that heartache and heartbreak is a part of life's beauty, though.. so no I don't want to spare them the sweetest suffering they'll ever know. Let em fall let em learn to get up again with you there to support them. jeez it's a no-brainer.

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Posted by bbwbellylover Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:18PM

i hear they're very good for you

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Posted by hertoy Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:16PM

As a father, and grandfather, I understand the desire to grow up ahead of schedule, and the desire for we parents to protect and guide them. There must be a balance if you're all to be happy.
Chaparoned date with older brother or sister?
Party with parents home and attentive?
Public date like the movies or a restaurant?
You gotta give something mom...believe me.

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Posted by youneeda Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:16PM

What about this surprises you? That sounds very normal!

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Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:15PM

This is an opportunity to demonstrate to her that you have faith in her judgement, and an opportunity for her to demonstrate that you're correct in doing so. Let her go, but with a curfew and an itinerary you approve of, and turn on GPS tracking in her cell phone just in case.

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Posted by MeteorDeath Jan 5th, 2013 at 2:10PM

Let her first be a tall, strong, hung, buff black man. White girls love that (:

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