My baby daddy is on the phone with me right no he hasn't called in two months do I offer to bring my son over or not?
7 Answers to "My baby daddy is on the phone with me right no he hasn't called in two months do I offer to bring my son over or not?"
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First of all, take his sorry a** to court and have him pay child support for your child, who deserves that, but an active father in his life. Secondly, don't leave this irresponsible selfish man alone with your son until he can prove to you that he's capable of handling it. And you let him know that you didn't have this child via a ***** donor. You want him involved with his son, and you want him to be a real father, as well. Don't listen to his excuses. You're a full time mother. Why shouldn't he be a full time father, too? Your son has rights, and so do you. See a lawyer.
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Try for your son .
Put all the hurt aside for your son .
Your's and your ex's feelings , wants or needs come second to your son's and will do forever now .
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parenting advise... from Ep'ers..... (facepalm)
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Parenting is for responsible people. Not calling for two month does not qualify as being responsible... unless you didn't want him to call in the first place.
Parenting is not something you do when you feel like it, it's something you do when you are needed to do it. He doesn't get to choose when he is up for parenting, but when he is up for parenting, he gets to choose whether he does it or is out of it.
Is he there when you need him to take care of the baby? I think, the answer to that question is the answer to your question.Like (1)
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Is he paying child support? If not hell no... But if he is then why not?
Bigger question is have you decided you want him to know his dad or not? Realizing that the court can always make that decision for you, but you got to figure that out first... I know for me the answer was "no" and we came to that agreement together...Like (1)
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no, let him make the effort
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Posted by TheCaliforniaKid 1 Feb 8th, 2013 at 9:19AM
no , two months is too long , it's obvious he doesn't care
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Reply by sweetpea053190 Feb 8th, 2013 at 9:20AM
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Reply by TheCaliforniaKid Feb 8th, 2013 at 9:24AM
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