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She says he is a hard worker. Doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs. That he has two grown kids. He has been married three times. Geewhiz, I am so nervous about this. I haven't dated in so long. :(
Vessa Vessa 41-45, F 12 Answers Mar 2, 2012

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Does this teller know your bank balance? Maybe she wants someone else to look after her father-in-law (financially) so maybe she and her hubby don't have to.

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No chance of that...lol. She does know my bank balance so I don't have to worry about her thinking along those lines. :) He doesn't live with them and is employed.

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Thank God! Please excuse my paranoia. Perhaps you just taught me to be a tad more trusting. People can really be genuinely nice, when they want to be. Good luck, no matter which way you go with this.

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That's one good thing...a man would have to be dirt poor to want me for my money. :) Thank you.

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3 times married is a big red flag! You can do better than that.

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I wouldn't count on it. lol.

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My sister married a guy who had been married 3 times, she was wife #4. The guy did a Jekyll and Hyde. She ended up divorced after 1 year. Please be careful!

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I will. Probably too careful. :)

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married 3x is a bit worrying but then how many people dont marry and rack up more. just start with a cuppa at lunch or something and work from there.

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Yes....she was saying she could get his number for me. I wish she'd at least have had a photo or something. I haven't given her an answer, as I wanted to mull it over.

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ask her to bring a pic to work. she wants you to hook up she will ;)

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LOL...hook up?

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I think you should ask your bank manager how many other times she's set this guy up. I think the teller and the feller are in on it together, making a play for your life savings.

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All I have is a checking account. LOL

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As long as you go in with an open mind and an once of caution, you should be fine. If you do go, I hope you have a fun date. Cheers, smallG

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I don't know about the open mind...I'm a little jaded. Haha. Thanks for the well wishes. :)

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Having seen many of your answers and comments over the past year I've never thought you sounded jaded. Maybe it's the optimist in me, but I think an intelligent women such as yourself can learn to take a chance. I hope this doesn't sound trite or anything like that as I am being completely sincere.

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Just an informal meeting, perhaps for coffee or something, to start off slow? She how you get along, if you can talk to each other, etc. Then decide from there.

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That's how it would be....I might try it. I don't know. It's hard to believe that I've lost so much confidence....when did that happen?

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At the worst, you get a cup of coffee and decide you don't want to see him again.

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At the worst, he finds out where i live and stalks me and I have to fight him off one night because he came in my window....or am I being paranoid? :S

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Well, he's taking the same chance, isn't he? And you could make that argument about anyone and then never have a date for the rest of your life.

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True. lol...though the odds are in his favor. :) Yes...I was actually getting ready to throw in the towel on the whole relationship thing. Then she said this today.

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Nothing ventured, nothing gained (to be totally unoriginal). Just be careful and take it slow.

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doesn't hurt to try. maybe a new friend?

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I don't know. I just need some bravery. I'm all jittery about it.

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maybe he is just as nervous as you. we all get that feeling when we first met someone new. just meet at a coffeehouse.

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Go for it, sounds like fun!

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I don't know...all I know is what she told me. Haven't seen the guy or anything.

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Well, at least to get your feet wet in the dating game again. Married 3 times is sort of a red flag.

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I know...I think that when you get to my age, the pickin's get slim. Most guys are gonna have baggage.

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