3 times married is a big red flag! You can do better than that.
My sister married a guy who had been married 3 times, she was wife #4. The guy did a Jekyll and Hyde. She ended up divorced after 1 year. Please be careful!
married 3x is a bit worrying but then how many people dont marry and rack up more. just start with a cuppa at lunch or something and work from there.
ask her to bring a pic to work. she wants you to hook up she will ;)
Just an informal meeting, perhaps for coffee or something, to start off slow? She how you get along, if you can talk to each other, etc. Then decide from there.
At the worst, you get a cup of coffee and decide you don't want to see him again.
Well, he's taking the same chance, isn't he? And you could make that argument about anyone and then never have a date for the rest of your life.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained (to be totally unoriginal). Just be careful and take it slow.
doesn't hurt to try. maybe a new friend?
maybe he is just as nervous as you. we all get that feeling when we first met someone new. just meet at a coffeehouse.