My bank teller wants me to meet her father in law...she thinks he's about 50. She says he's very nice...should I?

Asked By: Vessa 41-45, F 1 year ago

She says he is a hard worker. Doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs. That he has two grown kids. He has been married three times.
Geewhiz, I am so nervous about this. I haven't dated in so long.
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Posted by Endomorph Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:21PM

Does this teller know your bank balance? Maybe she wants someone else to look after her father-in-law (financially) so maybe she and her hubby don't have to.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:56PM

No chance of that...lol. She does know my bank balance so I don't have to worry about her thinking along those lines. :) He doesn't live with them and is employed.
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Reply by Endomorph Mar 2nd, 2012 at 9:08PM

Thank God! Please excuse my paranoia. Perhaps you just taught me to be a tad more trusting. People can really be genuinely nice, when they want to be. Good luck, no matter which way you go with this.
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Posted by SweetJuju Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:57PM

3 times married is a big red flag! You can do better than that.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:02PM

I wouldn't count on it. lol.
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Reply by SweetJuju Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:07PM

My sister married a guy who had been married 3 times, she was wife #4. The guy did a Jekyll and Hyde. She ended up divorced after 1 year. Please be careful!
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Posted by badbinary Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:50PM

married 3x is a bit worrying but then how many people dont marry and rack up more. just start with a cuppa at lunch or something and work from there.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:55PM

Yes....she was saying she could get his number for me. I wish she'd at least have had a photo or something. I haven't given her an answer, as I wanted to mull it over.
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Reply by badbinary Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:57PM

ask her to bring a pic to work. she wants you to hook up she will ;)
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Posted by atadir Mar 2nd, 2012 at 9:41PM

I think you should ask your bank manager how many other times she's set this guy up. I think the teller and the feller are in on it together, making a play for your life savings.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 10:16PM

All I have is a checking account. LOL
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Posted by smallG Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:27PM

As long as you go in with an open mind and an once of caution, you should be fine. If you do go, I hope you have a fun date. Cheers, smallG

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 9:48PM

I don't know about the open mind...I'm a little jaded. Haha. Thanks for the well wishes. :)
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Reply by smallG Mar 2nd, 2012 at 10:39PM

Having seen many of your answers and comments over the past year I've never thought you sounded jaded. Maybe it's the optimist in me, but I think an intelligent women such as yourself can learn to take a chance. I hope this doesn't sound trite or anything like that as I am being completely sincere.
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Posted by byebyebabe Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:07PM

Go for it he probably does not bite in a bad way.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 9:53PM

Hmm...I didn't think to ask her if he had all his teeth...
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Posted by ChipmunkErnie Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:54PM

Just an informal meeting, perhaps for coffee or something, to start off slow? She how you get along, if you can talk to each other, etc. Then decide from there.

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:03PM

That's how it would be....I might try it. I don't know. It's hard to believe that I've lost so much confidence....when did that happen?
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Reply by ChipmunkErnie Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:18PM

At the worst, you get a cup of coffee and decide you don't want to see him again.
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Posted by coconutty Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:53PM

doesn't hurt to try. maybe a new friend?

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:07PM

I don't know. I just need some bravery. I'm all jittery about it.
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Reply by coconutty Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:13PM

maybe he is just as nervous as you. we all get that feeling when we first met someone new. just meet at a coffeehouse.
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Posted by MmmBabi Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:49PM

Go for it, sounds like fun!

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Reply by Vessa Mar 2nd, 2012 at 7:52PM

I don't know...all I know is what she told me. Haven't seen the guy or anything.
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Reply by MmmBabi Mar 2nd, 2012 at 8:44PM

Well, at least to get your feet wet in the dating game again. Married 3 times is sort of a red flag.
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