My bestfriend hates my boyfriend and she doesn't know him. She feels as if he isn't right for me...what am I missing? !?
I have been with my bf for 4 months and my best friend doesn't like him. She feels as if he is disrespectful and he has me in the palm of his hand and he is walking all over me. She happened to see us on a bad day, our first argument, and because he and I were both heated and filled with emotions, and his reactions, she now says she cannot be around me if I stay with him. I have seen her go through some things no one should have to go through with her boyfriend and I still stayed by her side no questions asked.....but I feel like I'm forced to choose. She has stated that she doesn't care about him, she doesn't care to know him, and she doesn't want to know him.....so how can you dislike someone you choose not to get to know? Him and I click very well and he has been very helpful around the house (he stays with me) and assisting with bills. He also spends time with my four year old when he knows he doesn't have to. I am happy but my friend thinks otherwise. Why isn't she happy for me?