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Toya89 Toya89 22-25, F 43 Answers Feb 17, 2013 in Dating & Relationships

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Recognise that if you introduce violence to a relationship then you've no one to blame but yourself when you fall victim to it. <br />
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I don't think a man should hit a woman because physically he is so much stronger but I really don't think a woman should use that as an excuse to get a free hit in. <br />
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Apologise to him and make sure it doesn't happen again.

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Couldn't have said it better

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When a couple put their hands on each other it is time to leave the relationship. It is unhealthy and will only get worse.

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well if you call the police then you'll both likely be arrested. Just leave him and do both of you a favor

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Thats a very simple one to answer ... two words .... Pack/Leave

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You're right. I think HE should.

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Idc what he did to emotionally hurt you, you had absolutely no right to put your hands on him. Same goes for men it doesn't matter what the girl did to emotionally hurt them they have no right to put their hands on a women. No right at all what so ever. that being said you did slap him so if he slapped you back I would not say anything however you say that he punched you all over. he crossed the line why indeed yes he did. that was wrong of him and i'm sorry that you went through that. however I hope you do not think that you are innocent in this situation. you both crossed the line. you just have to take this as a lesson and move on with your life. do not dwell over it. realize that both of you were wrong and that you two are not good for one another. you can find someone who makes you happy ( that you don't feel the urge to slap). Forget about this man. Do not press charges unless it happens again and he initiates it. Best thing for you to do is end all contact with this "boy". You will be okay and things will start to look up again over time. good luck.

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How about you try not slapping him. If you started it you deserve anything you get.

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No one deserves to be hit. He hit harder &amp; more times. He obviously has a hard time controlling his anger. If you fear him, call the police &amp; report what happened, and get a restraining order. If you don't think he'll hurt you again, the. Break up with him. You two should be done with each other.

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It sounds as though you are both abusive people so parting would be safer for both of you.

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Im not abusive.

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You just admitted you hit him first and started the physical side of the fight. If you strike someone that is physical abuse.

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But the court system won't do a damn thing to her. Is that fair?

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No it isn't fair, it's basically sexism.

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i never said i was right for hitting him.

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When a guy gets hit it's a reflex to hit back. You sound just as abusive as he is, and seem to think cuz you're a girl it's ok to hit him and it's not , thats assault . I can't stand guys that beat up on women but it sounds like you deserved it.

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u kno dont kno what i have been through to tell me i deserve anything

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Leave him at MINIMUM. Call the police at MOST.

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Yeah but she is guilty of assault also

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A slap doesn't usually leave the same mark as a PUNCH.

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nothing ... you hit him first.even thou hes not much of a man hitting a woman

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don't slap him...what amkes it ok for you to do it but not him? been reading threw best to go seperate ways if its got to this stage

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i have gotten beat by him plenty of times. I looked at it as revenge. Its been 5 years its not that easy to walk away

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not "easy" but you still need to do it.

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stop it right away- it is serious

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Call the cops,prefer charges and dump him!

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Do you like to get ugly by cowards? you can call 911 and get a restraining order. if he hit you once he will continue to hit again. if you want to get ugly and live that way then live that way.

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police

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First off,admit that instigating violence within a relationship is totally wrong and never do it again...Then consider why your partner punched you all over instead of just walking away,and make it plain that its over if the situation is ever repeated then its over..

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Call the police & have his abusive a$$ locked up! No man has the right to strike a woman! NO MAN!!

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No woman has the right to strike a man either.

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I don't think women know that they don't have the right.

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They don't but the courts never do anything to the female. If a man hits a woman he goes to jail. If a woman hit a man, the man goes to jail for egging her on. Justice...yeah right.

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Kick him between the legs o-o I'm sure a girl's slap is nothing compared to a guy's fist. He probably has anger management issues because you don't just punch!! Ignore him and if u hate him now then dump him.

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I have seen guys getting slapped. They never punched back. He didn't react so well at all. Reacting well would be by walking away not punching her.

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pull outthe brass knuckles and shatter his face.

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but the woman beater is down. Positive notes.

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She hit him first. Why doesn't she go to jail for it? Because the courts are full of bull$hit judges. That's why.

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its a little slap you girls blouse.

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first, stop calling him your "boyfriend". then get counseling to find out why you think violence belongs in a relationship. good luck!

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