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My bf cheated for 3yrs out of our 5yrs relationship. i only cheated once recently. do you think i was wrong? he does

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20 Answers to "My bf cheated for 3yrs out of our 5yrs relationship. i only cheated once recently. do you think i was wrong? he does"

  1. spooky8 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by spooky8 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:05AM

    Yes you are wrong, on two accounts: for staying with a cheater, and then cheating.

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  2. adamlevinemine9 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by adamlevinemine9 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:04AM

    two wrongs don't make a right

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  3. Amy29 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Amy29 Jul 29th, 2012 at 10:25AM

    if you are both cheating on eachother... why stay in the relationship?? you dont deserve to be with someone who would cheat on you once, let alone for years. find a relationship based on mutual respect, and love. could you actually see yourself marrying him? or having kids with him?? you cant even trust that he is not screwing around behind your back now. get out of the relationship. it will be hard, if you have been with him for 5+ years, but respect yourself enough to walk away. be strong.

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  4. drakesprig - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by drakesprig Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:08AM

    You are STILL with him!!!!!!!!! Are you a glutten for punishment?

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  5. Grakka - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Grakka Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:04AM

    Why are you still together with him if he cheated on you and you felt that it was okay to cheat too? Not a very good thing to build a relationship on

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  6. irdumb - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by irdumb Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:03AM

    you're both wrong, not stop trying to figure out who's wrong and fix it, or leave

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  7. priorities - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by priorities Dec 16th, 2012 at 6:50PM

    I think it is wrong. I know people make mistakes, but I wouldn't stay with someone who cheated and I wouldn't stay with someone I felt compelled to cheat on.

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  8. meh3 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by meh3 Oct 4th, 2012 at 7:34PM

    You're both wrong, but that ******* got what was coming to him.

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  9. tigertommy - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by tigertommy Aug 23rd, 2012 at 3:06AM

    I think your both very wrong. But you look like the fool in the end because your still their:-(

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  10. photophinnish - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by photophinnish Jul 23rd, 2012 at 4:12AM

    Why are you still with him? This is a very unhealthy relationship and they always end badly. You both have emotional issues that need to be dealt with separate from each other before you can have a healthy relationship. Even if he says that he has changed haven't you developed trust issues with him now? I just dont understand cheating, personally. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years, all throughout highschool and college and never even so much as held another man's hand. Everyone makes mistakes but doing the same thing multiple times over and over again isn't okay in my books AND on top of that you were comfortable doing it back to him.

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  11. ImpossibleSludge - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ImpossibleSludge Jul 23rd, 2012 at 4:02AM

    Well, I'm not one to judge on relationships because I'm a disaster, but if he cheated for 3 years, should he really expect you to give a ****?
    I think the mistake you made on your part was that you stayed with him. Life's too short for jerks.

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  12. VirgoTheArtyFarty - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by VirgoTheArtyFarty Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:39AM

    Two wrongs DO NOT make a right! And why stay with him if he cheated on you for 3 of your 5 years of being together, when you obviously deserved better?!?! ... But well done, you have now sunk your ship down to his level.

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  13. bongus - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bongus Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:26AM

    yeah, it's wrong. no way to sugar coat it.

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  14. rednot95 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by rednot95 Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:16AM

    it happened to me l had a one-nite stand while l was married and my ex-wife had a affair with my best friend for 6 ******* years so we cheated -they cheated as well.

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  15. akhilsnath - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by akhilsnath Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:13AM

    from my point of view both of you are wrong but only u can decide if it was wrong or right no one elses(including ur bf) point of view or advice or suggestions has nothing to do the only thing that matters is what u feel about it

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  16. 5thApprentice - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by 5thApprentice Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:11AM

    You're wrong. Your cheating doesn't even things out it's still cheating.

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  17. echoscall - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by echoscall Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:05AM

    Both are wrong , Both of you need to ask why , then see if u should part ways , or open your relationship , personally I don't like open relationships but it's at least a little more honest ,

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  18. Tylerhouston - 22-25 years old

    Posted by Tylerhouston Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:05AM

    Ur both wrong for cheating on each other.

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  19. fyregurl - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by fyregurl Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:05AM

    In my point of view, you both did wrong. Cheating is cheating. For me it's just wrong no matter how long it happened or how many times. Just because he cheated doesn't mean you should to. If you're just cheating on each other what's the point of staying in that relationship? That's just me..

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  20. itsallaparadox - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by itsallaparadox Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:03AM

    yes you are both wrong.......

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  21. thestrongcrytoo - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by thestrongcrytoo Jul 23rd, 2012 at 3:22AM

    ok yes i was wrong i understand that. but i really want out of the relationship but he thinks because he has changed i should forgive him but i just cant i told him i was seeing someone else and that made it worse i cant get him out of my face for nothing

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