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My bf is not picking up any calls,but voicemail is going through..does it mean he is avoiding me and is dating someone?

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11 Answers to "My bf is not picking up any calls,but voicemail is going through..does it mean he is avoiding me and is dating someone?"

  1. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by BabzEsq24 Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:53AM

    You need to back off a bit- needy is not attractive

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  2. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:12AM

    but I miss him, I have great frends and I have tried booze, smoke..party, get together..shopping..nothing is helping

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  3. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by BabzEsq24 Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:20AM

    Therapy, maybe? Get at why you cannot let go

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  4. boatrace - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by boatrace Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:02AM

    NO......hes out dating someone less paranoid.

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  5. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:13AM

    thank you!!

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  6. Coldwarrior - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Coldwarrior Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:54AM

    He is shagging her as we type.

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  7. infpisme - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by infpisme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:53AM

    Wow what a wild connection you have made

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  8. Pmacphoto - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by Pmacphoto May 23rd, 2013 at 4:25PM

    DUH

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  9. Danielle772 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Danielle772 Mar 3rd, 2013 at 11:08AM

    No But he is disappointed in you! He is pissed I have been on that end in the past. But if he is married he's rethinking his life and you could loose good luck

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  10. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 3rd, 2013 at 11:10AM

    he is single n loves me

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  11. Creamsicle - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Creamsicle Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:48AM

    Could mean he's taking a poop or a nap

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  12. AllegorieBootlair - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by AllegorieBootlair Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:10AM

    9 days is a long time not to hear from a loved one...if it were me, I'd swing by his place and check in or call where he works or his parents......he may be incapacitated....at any rate, if he's moved on there's nothing you can do...

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  13. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:13AM

    I do not have any contact number of his Mom or brothers, or frends or work place..:(

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  14. AllegorieBootlair - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by AllegorieBootlair Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:15AM

    ouch...then all you can do is wait...I know that will be excruciating, but it's the only option...do you know his address? Nothing wrong with checking in...at least you waited 9 days...he can't fault your concern for his well being...

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  15. Blueberrykiwi - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Blueberrykiwi Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:00AM

    Then this is the right time to put him and your relationship to a test. If he had good reason and really really can't answer your phone for a good and right reason, he will come to you later after whatever the problem is resolved.

    If he didn't have any reason and doing this to avoid you only (for whatever reason) then why you should wait for him anxiously? leave him and let others who really think about you make their way into your new life.

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  16. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:16AM

    that is what exactly how I want it..but I am failing to let anyone come near me

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  17. Truthquest - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Truthquest Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:58AM

    Unless he is hospitalized, he's not calling because he doesn't want to. The reason doesn't really matter.

    We're all free to make our own choices, and that means you can, too. Only you know how valuable the relationship is to you. Is he worth hanging on for? Or would you rather have a boyfriend who has the character to be honest and fair with your feelings?

    Turn the situation around and think about what YOU want and deserve. Maybe you will decide you don't actually want him to call back. Ever.

    It's another way to look at the situation, anyway. Good luck :-)

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  18. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:04AM

    hhmmm thanks

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  19. WisersDeLux - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by WisersDeLux Mar 2nd, 2013 at 7:54AM

    Avoiding you ... probably. Dating someone else ... not enough conclusive information. Is there anything in your personality which would entice him to date other women?

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  20. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Mar 2nd, 2013 at 8:02AM

    no, we love eachother so much and do not appreciate anyone else in between us. He is just absconding and I do not know what is going on..So, I am assuming he might be dating ;/

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