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whenever it was her fault, knowing that too, he was the one saying sorry all the time and apolozing..she never bothered . but my bf said he was madly in love so he never noticed,,but later he did and repented alot for it that he decied he would never be that king ever again!!! is that correct correct thing to do?? of changing your behaviour?? i really want to know??
honeyswizgal honeyswizgal 18-21, F 7 Answers Nov 1, 2013 in Struggles

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obviously he has been hurt bad and at tis age it hurts more because of immaturity and lack of experiance but if he chooses not to be kindI suggest you get away from him before you start getting the same treatment

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Love is blind

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Duh, she used him.

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Balance in these kinds of things is good. But going from one unwise extreme to the opposite end of the spectrum is bad.



Finding the right middle path is hard for many people.

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what was one unwise extreme??

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Allowing emotons to blind on to the truth of the situation resulting in apologizing and taking the blame for every trouble even when it originated from the partner. The other extreme is to turn into a hard nut who puts the blame on the other person all the time because they have been burnt. They go from being a victim in relationships to being an abuser in relationships. One extreme to the other.

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so should i show him that he should not do what he thinks is correct(changing his behaviour)
instead should learn some other lesson from it!!

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Well He should change his behavour. But not to the other extreme. If he does that then he is going to be blaming you for every problem that rears it's head in your relationship with him. That will ensure another failed relationship. Encourage him to be balanced, Yeah He should learn a lesson from it in a level headed way. Not allow emotion to cause him to go to the other illogical extreme.

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Some people are slow.

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slow in what sense?

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He was slow to realize he was being used.

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but was it correct to change his behaviour completely??? is that a mistake?

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Why does he have ANY contact with his ex? He's with you now! People should leave their ex's in the past unless he has children with her and must coordinate child care.

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Nice.

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what is nice?

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