Your mom must be a joy around this time of year huh?
All in favor of EP installing a Sarcasm font say aye!
Your reaction should be packing your **** and walking out, while saying nothing.
Oh, this breaks my heart. I'm so sorry. Parents can be so cruel sometimes.
When do you get to go home? Today, I hope.
mistake for her good for you
My mother also told me that she was considering an abortion when she was pregnant for me. She still thinks she failed because of me and now has nothing to do with me.
Just walk away and never try to contact her again. You are not a mistake!!! You were brought here to this earth for a reason. Find that reason and be around people who care about you. Just because she is blood...doesn't she should love you. I have a lil cousin in the same situation....love yourself you are beautiful
I would tell her that it was not your fault, she should had protection or kept her legs close, I'm sorry that she had told you that because you are innocent.
Smile and remind her that you may well get to pick her retirement home. <br />
Seriously, it is a difficult attitude to understand. There are two ways to handle it. You can let it fester like an open wound, dragging you down emotionally and making you bitter. Or, you can accept her for who she is, understand that it is unlikely that she will change, and move on to live a life filled with joy and love. My own father and I had near fatal confrontation on several occasions and the last thing he said to me before dying was "get the F(&k away from me). It took me time to come to terms with his life and feelings, but eventually I did. Now I have a wonderful family, a good life, and he is dead. I'd say I won! I did forgive him for the hell he put me through, and that helped me move forward. Let her go an move on, live a life worth living.
Well, you should say, "You're complaining? Look at it from my point of view, I'm the one who should be complaining here." <br />
Seriously though, what you do or don't do is not the reason for who your mother is or what her life has been like. Just know that and take her for who she is don't show animosity or hurt and just move on with your life.
Wow, reading that actually brought tears to my eyes. I don't know how anyone can treat their own blood like that ): I'm with the guy with the cat on his head tho. Use it as motivation to show her how wrong she is. (:
But it doesn't have to be part of life... nor should it be.
Apologize and walk out of her life. It's too bad she hasn't gotten over it but it doesn't make you less worthy of respect and love from anyone else.
Just pity her... what a poor excuse for a mother she is....
Boot to the head!
Wow, hell no don't react! Remain neutral, she probably wants you to react in a negative way! It's not worth it! Omg, wow can't believe she would say something like that!!!!!! *hugs
Every mother has a responsibility to her children, she has no right to say that 2 u, unless u did somethin' great, something that spun her dearly..
No..don't give her the satisfaction...i'm sorry you had to hear that.
Yes. How about 'Say goodbye and never see her again'?