Just to elaborate more: <br /> We have been together for 4 years, with ups and downs yet I never left him behind. I am not rich but have a more stable job than him so i pay for many of our dates. I am currently busy with my day job and as a part time dancer, yet still I reserve time for him. I did housework for him (not living together) when i was free. <br /> I don't feel well with his flirting behavior yet didn't scold him in public...<br /> Recently he asks for personal space so much and I am okay with that. However when I asked him out for dinner last night, he lost his temper and blamed my immaturity.<br /> <br /> Maybe he wants me to stay home as full time "wife" but my work is an important financial source..