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My boyfriend adores me, then walked out 5 wks ago and I havent heard from him since...WTF? Please help me!?

I've known this guy for 10 years. He was a great friend to me during my marriage breakup. Totally platonic, perfect gentleman. 2 and 1/2 years later we finally get it together. He's the best boyfriend I've ever had. We seemed to just click. He calls me every night without fail. Comes over every Saturday night without fail (and sometimes during the week). He helps me buy a car after I wrecked mine. He is so helpful in every way. He says he loves me I say it too. Typical Saturday night together, we do the usual, hang out, laugh, chat, have sex, say I love you to each other. He gets up to leave, kisses me at the door. And I've never heard from him since. That was 5 weeks ago. His daughter used to text me, and she has not contacted me either. We were together for 4 months, never had a problem. I've called him twice since then but he won't take my calls. Please help me...WTF does that mean?
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My only guess is something happened to the both of them. Do a little investigation. Im sorry I cannot give any better advice but I do not know this guy to know if he was playing you all along.
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Other 5 Answers to My boyfriend adores me, then walked out 5 wks ago and I havent heard from him since...WTF? Please help me!?


softkitti
Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 8:32PM
Ask his family and friends if they look worried also then its time to talk to the authorities
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aussieman
Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 8:42PM
maybe something happened - nothing to do with you, nothing personal. maybe his family probs. yep check with his friends, have they heard from him recently too.

Or, maybe he didn't know what to say. did you talk and listen a lot?

If he is in contact with others but not you, ... sorry, try to move on. some times people just fall over the edge and disappear.
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kessie
Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 8:58PM
sounds like he may be taking the cowards way out. Maybe he was too scared to make a final commitment.

Last week on the radio they had a thing on relationship breakups and callers rang and said how they were dumped or how they dumped people.

One girl said she had been living with a lad for 5 years and one day went out and never went back. (except when he wasn't there to pick up her belongings) She said she wouldn't answer his phone calls or see him. She admitted she now feels pretty bad about the way she dumped him that is was cowardly and immature of her and he deserved much better than the way she treated him. It may have made her feel better owning up to being a ***** but it is no good to him, he still doesn't know why she left.
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rubythursday
Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 10:47PM
The other 4 posters here have given you great advice - I have nothing to add, except good luck and keep your chin up!
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RandomBloke1973
Posted Oct 2nd, 2009 at 10:55PM
The fact that he refuses to take your calls means that he is either very guilty or very hurt.

If he is guilty, he may have told you some lies or been "economic with the truth". He might be in a new relationship now.

If he is hurt, there might have been some painful incident which you either don't remember or don't attach great significance to.

Either way, if he won't talk to you, you won't know for sure.
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