My boyfriend and I were on a break for two weeks. In that time he met an old friend of his and now, we're back together.
Today while we were out for coffee he sees this girl and he calls me after to tell me he feels guilty for disrupting her life and leading her on. When I ask him what was going on, if he wanted a future with her, he says he's not sure what he was looking for with her. You tell me. Does this matter? Should I take this seriously? I mean, I've made my fair share of mistakes but what does it say about him at this point? Would he feel guilty if he didn't have feelings for her, the extra kind she confessed over whatsapp messages, messages he deleted so I wouldn't see them. Yes, there was definitely something going on and they were more than the ordinary pair of friends, but he was sure up until today that he wanted me and not her. He chose me. Without a doubt. We're trying to sort out our issues, we're trying to make some progress. Today, he tells me he wasn't sure what he wanted from her or why he even contacted her. Does this mean he's not ready to commit to me?