My boyfriend cheated, should I forgive him? (Plus, worst excuse ever to cheat)
Last yr, my boyfriend cheated on me w/ some female from his track team. His teammates would drop HUGE hints in front of me but he insisted he wasn't messing w/ her. I saw them together and kissing at the school pep rally or whatever. I left him alone and moved on. We're back together & in love! But the past is coming back to haunt me because he won't admit that he was wrong. He claims he didn't think we were 2gether because he didn't think I was serious but it had already been 2 weeks into the relationship! Lamest excuse ever! Now I don't think I can continue w/ this relationship because I CAN'T let this go. I cried and cried! I was sooo sad and this was no misunderstanding! He lied in my face and made a dumba** excuse. Plus I was embarrassed in front of friends at the pep rally! I looked dumb! They also do track again 2gether this season and he says she's nothing to him but idk...Any advice?
11 Answers to "My boyfriend cheated, should I forgive him? (Plus, worst excuse ever to cheat)"
Posted by kbergsing Mar 8th, 2011 at 5:49PM
If you can't be confident in his feelings, then I would drop him. You don't need that knot in the pit of your stomach every time he is away from you. Move on, know better is coming, and don't regret...
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Posted by glorialamuse Mar 8th, 2011 at 5:48PM
Your way to young to worry about a tainted relationship such as this, move on and find someone else period I mean why bother you have doubts hurt feeling, and he has already proven who he really is. I don't understand why you are even considering continuing. have some pride girl. you deserve better
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Posted by Everydaycliche Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:53PM
There are a million matches for every person. There is no reason why you have to stay with him. He cheated on you, he lost your trust. If you can't forgive him, you shouldn't be with him. Simple as that. He can't even apologize for doing that to you? He won't admit that he was at fault? Move on.
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Reply by Soshified101 Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:58PM
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Posted by mixxieboomboom Mar 8th, 2011 at 8:08AM
It also happened to me, that my boyfriend whom I loved so much had another girlfriend. It was really hurt but I still gave him a second chance, It didn't work, he did it again and it hurts me again for the second time, much hurtful than the first. So I learned one thing, that if people made it once, there is a 99% possibilities that they will do that again especially when you let them.
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Posted by tropicalmike Dec 23rd, 2010 at 6:30PM
The real question is are you prepared to have a relationship with someone who does not respect you enough to be faithful or if it was as he said unsure if there was a relationship at the beginning not caring enough to apologise,the best way to see what his true feelings are is to see how he treats you when she is in your company,his actions will tell you where his priorities lie. Good luck.
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Posted by Middnight915 Dec 20th, 2010 at 7:05AM
If that was my boyfriend. i don't think i could ever forgive him. i don't understand why ppl cheat. I think you can do better than him, if he cant even respect your relationship or even answer your questions about why he cheat and so on....
but than again, if you love him you might want to give the relationship another chance, but i would say ensure you have strong support from friends and family, in case it doesn't end well again.
Good luck
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Posted by prettytasty Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:58PM
I wouldn't stay with him I caught my ex cheatin and then whenyour at work or not with him u will constantly doubt him and u deserve better.
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Reply by Soshified101 Dec 19th, 2010 at 11:00PM
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Posted by everynothing Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:52PM
Cut him loose. He doesn't seem to have any respect for you and you deserve better.
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Reply by Soshified101 Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:57PM
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Posted by everton13 Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:49PM
Once a cheat always a cheat.
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Posted by endofseptember Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:47PM
no
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Posted by SadEyedAngel126 Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:45PM
umm i wouldnt trust him, cause in the long un youll get hurt again. ive had it done to me
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Reply by Soshified101 Dec 19th, 2010 at 10:55PM
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