My boyfriend constantly brings up the past or what I did wrong up until the day before our first date, how do I deal?
We have been dating for a few months. I, being an honest person wanted to tell him people I have been with. I have made a mistake and slept with someone the day before our first date. He knows this and I appologized countless times for this. We have gotten into alot of horrible fights because of our trust issues. I am trying to make him see I am not the person he fears. He has high values and doesn't want to be with someone who has slept with alot of people. However, what he doesn't seem to remember is how I feel when his ex kept trying to call him. During one of our fights, his ex came over to his house and I am told all they did was talk. He always tells me nothing happened, but I feel like something did. I try so hard to be understanding and to show him what a great person I am now. He often tells me I am great there's just stuff he can't seem to let go of that is hurting us. I am torn and confused. One day he says he loves me and he wants to make this work,what should I do?