If you are not married , now is your chance to move on to someone else.
A girlfriend told me at one time that one thing that worked for her was to dress up in a wig it was almost like being a different person and she got a new ***** and attitude and it was like he did too!
You need to make love to me on film and leave it where he can find it just before you kick him out
get out and leave him be
Is he not attracted, or are you just catching him at the "wrong" time. Unlike p*rn, average men in long term relationships are not always ready at the drop of a hat, (or a nightgown). Maybe he's tired. Maybe he needs some space. Try turning him on subtly. Sit a "certain way," but just talk about other things. Innocently bend over in front of him in a skirt to pick something up. Make HIM think of it. Stop being pushy. Just a thought.
Life is too short not to be Happy !!!!
easy answer. Look in the mirror and evualate yourself. If that part is good, then the rest is not what you say, but how you say it. Think about it!
Just maybe time to move on and not look back.
I agree with southernheart, sounds like he's not compatible with you.<br />
Since you're not married to him you may as well move on, there's no reason to stay in a relationship that you're unhappy in.<br />
Life's far too short for that.
Just my thoughts here, take them or leave them.<br />
Men more often get angry then bored. You have to play this carefully, I think. Set up a time and place for you to be alone..together. Be nice. Strawberries and champagne. Candles and music....soft music. <br />
If that doesn't work, pick a fight and see if you can taunt him into "angry sex". A form of "make up sex". Violent, basic, rough. He may be feeling he has lost control of his life and your relationship and submitting to him may help. <br />
Make him work for it or it will not be as good.