My boyfriend doesn't trust me, I don't know why I haven't cheated, how can't I help him trust me ?
he doesn't let me out to clubs and won't let me chat to boys he doesn't know, he says its because he doesn't wanna lose me to someone else, but after 6 months I think he should know it isn't that easy to get rid of me, I have heard this behiver can lead to abuse, he is very strong and can fight, I'm worryed about him taking it out on me
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Posted by supergirlz Feb 21st, 2013 at 1:07PM
He's overly jealous and controlling. Find a better guy.
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Posted by Emken Apr 10th, 2013 at 9:27PM
When people don't trust with no reason it's usually coz they are guilty of something...he knows u shouldn't trust him so he acts like u have done something wrong....if u are worried he might hurt u physically get out, it's not worth it. Find someone who respects u and will treat u like a princess.
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Posted by stamp24 Feb 12th, 2013 at 12:38PM
Same situation. my husband of 5 years says the same exact thing!! The truth is he really is scared to loose you to someone. He does care about you alot. He may be insecure and not have high self esteem. He probably will say if you asked that you deserve the best and he is scared he can't give u what u deserve. In my situation i always assure him im not leaving him for anyone, that he is more than enough for me, no other man can do for me what you do. im in this for the long run. Controlling and obsession in the beginning is okay but break the bad habit somehow or Ur not going to be too happy. There is such thing as having a life why in love. Good luck.
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Posted by knowyoubetter Jan 4th, 2013 at 11:02PM
Well,i personally think that this thing i.e doubt,suspicion doesnt involves love.When you are in a relationship,your bf must trust you that you love him only...no matter how much you talk to other guys,that doesnt mean you are flirting with them or anything else.Tell him to trust you if really loves you and that freedom is the biggest thing a guy can give to a girl being in a relationship if he truely loves her. U don't do that thing with him,isn't it? Den why he would.
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Posted by risenphoenix Jan 4th, 2013 at 5:48PM
It sounds as if he's very insecure, jealous and controlling. He's not going to change.
Unless he were to seek professional help, I would say it was time for you to leave before you get physically hurt.
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Posted by daviesgirl Jan 4th, 2013 at 4:33PM
He is already controlling you. Tell him to get professional help or he will lose you because you can't live your life being controlled in this way......the controlling will only get worse
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Posted by pkein Jan 4th, 2013 at 4:32PM
you can't... its him, not you. Run, dont walk in the opposite direction.. these things do not get better with time.
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Posted by TheJudgernaut Jan 4th, 2013 at 4:32PM
If you are afraid of him you probably shouldnt be with him.
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