after 8 monthes,,I would tell him either have sex or its done,,,it don,t even make sence really,,sence you guys play around other wise
This is very strange...if you both are doing other things and he has no issues with those other things than something is seriously wrong.
Naturally this would make you feel insecure and awful. When he says that he is afraid that things may come out wrong is odd considering you both are doing the other things and they turn out fine. It is possible his fear stems from a previous relationship where either he was made fun of by the person or had problems maintaining below where he felt inadequate. Maybe someone he was with before made snide remarks about his performance and he is afraid you may do the same or things did not function as well as he had hoped and it brought a fear in him that maybe they might not work again if you and he were truly intimate.
make him lay naked with you all night,,he,ll get over it,,,demand that he ********** infront of you,,,that will do it, lol,,,just saying,,,looks like you need to be the boss or things will never get better,,8 monthes is a long time,,
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hows your gaydar?
Spike him with a little blue pill!