My boyfriend just has major anger issues or?
When my boyfriend gets mad he hits walls, hits himself, yells, says horrible things that only comes out when he's mad, and is basically out of control. Sometimes When he's like this he tells me to talk to him but in the moment I just have nothing to say, maybe from shock or disbelief, I'm not sure. But it results in him getting angrier. Usually me hugging him and telling him to stop calms him down. He has hit me in the past a few times, and shoved me into walls but I told him a month ago if he even tried to do that again we would brake up and it hasn't happened.
I'm confused on whether this is a sign and means something else, or it's more serious then I'm taking it or I'm over exaggerating?