My boyfriend lies to me about stupid little things. WHY? And is this a deal breaker?
I've caught him several times before and explained that this affects our relationship in a very serious way, because even though they are little things, he is still lying. It makes it hard for me to trust him about the big things, though at the moment, I don't think he would cheat on me or anything like that and I don't think he has ever done so. We've been together over three years. I just don't like being lied to! Why do you think he does this, and do you think this means it will get worse? Is it possible to have a real relationship with someone who lies, even if it is just about stupid stuff? The stupid stuff includes things like where he had lunch, and other strange useless things to lie about.