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My boyfriend of 3 years hasn't called me in two Weeks what does this mean?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years on and off. I'm now 7 months pregnant with his first child. For the months that have passed by he was happy and excited but them all of a sudden he acted distant with me.this is not his first time doing this! The last time i spoke to him he said (i need time right now have a lot in mind and am stressing so give me some time i asked why he wouldn't say them before hanging up he says i love you i really do I'll call you later and never did.now its been two Weeks what should i do?

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  1. ChuckeeCheese - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by ChuckeeCheese Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:26AM

    Why don't you ask HIM that? He is the only one who knows the actual answer.

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  2. KittenHasaWhip - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by KittenHasaWhip Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:26PM

    He's a dirt bag! Leave the bastard. If he can't call you every day to see how you are, then he is a selfish, cowardly boy.

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  3. miliana - 18-21 years old

    Reply by miliana Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:39PM

    I say the same thing you can at least text once to see how I'm doing! I just don't know how to leave him.

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  4. KittenHasaWhip - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by KittenHasaWhip Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:53PM

    You don't have to leave him.He left you already. Now get on with your life. Send him a bill for baby items. He should at least pay for child support.

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  5. silvermist96 - 16-17 years old

    Posted by silvermist96 Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:07PM

    you better call him and see whats up and if he doesnt want to take care of your baby then sue him and you get money for your baby! oh nd it could also mean he is just scared......

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  6. miliana - 18-21 years old

    Reply by miliana Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:15PM

    i will if he's not trying to take care of his responsibilities. Why doesn't he just say why ignoring me is better for him?

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  7. silvermist96 - 16-17 years old

    Reply by silvermist96 Jun 29th, 2012 at 12:59PM

    that i dont have an naswer to you gotta ask him. call him today and ask him! NOWWWW!

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  8. themarvelousme - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by themarvelousme Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:29AM

    This could go one of a few different ways. On the one hand, you could simply ask him what the problem is. The fact that he is running away from the problem (if that is what he is really doing) concerns me but you need to make sure that is what it is. Two weeks is a long time if you are carrying his child. (Do you not live together?) Wait another day. If he does not call you, call him until he answers. This isn't the time for second thoughts. That day passed a long time ago.

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  9. IntenseCookie - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by IntenseCookie Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:29AM

    Means you need to call him and ask HIM that. Then if he dousent give you a real answer find your kid a new dad :/

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  10. woodybjr - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by woodybjr Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:29AM

    Write his *** off and move on with life. If he isnt dead physically, now is a good time to consider him dead in spirit. Dont forget to sue his *** for child support too. Deadbeat mofo.

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  11. jessiana - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by jessiana Jun 29th, 2012 at 6:26PM

    Soo i really don't know why my account is not letting me in had to make a new one so please send me messages on this new one

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  12. Drunkmissy - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Drunkmissy Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:41AM

    Call him and find out if my bf did that to me id give him a real ear full its out of order to do that to u demand to know whats going on

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  13. Thekidsmom - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Thekidsmom Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:41AM

    There is a reason you don't live together even though you are pregnant. Do you want to be with him? Or is it that you don't want to do it alone? Call him, ask him how much time he needs and for what...and what his plans are for being in the baby's life....you need to be able to settle yourself and get your plans together with or without him. And don't freak out, you can be a mom without his help. Either was you will be just fine.

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  14. miliana - 18-21 years old

    Reply by miliana Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:45AM

    I love him and want to be with him.my mom had 5 and did it alone I'm not afraid i just want a closure of what he wants and going to do.

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  15. Thekidsmom - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Thekidsmom Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:49AM

    I understand that you love him, but it is really a matter of how long you can wait for him to change his mind, or make it up...if you don't want to just wait...tell him to decide.

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  16. lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:38AM

    Sounds typical for a guy in a 3-year-old relationship so don't panic! It's bad for the baby. =D

    I think what you should do is to let him be. Don't ask him, it will only annoy him. For you, just freeze these thoughts and get busy. If you want to talk about it, talk to him in person when he gets home to you, and not over the phone. You will be proud of yourself that you were patient while he's being a lost boy. He will appreciate that if and when he comes home.

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  17. miliana - 18-21 years old

    Reply by miliana Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:47AM

    thing is that we don't live together right now he lives with his grandmother

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  18. lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:49AM

    Just wait for him until he visits you again. =D

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  19. toebird - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by toebird Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:28AM

    You don't listen very well! So why bother calling...

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  20. TheBlondeBombshell - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TheBlondeBombshell Jun 29th, 2012 at 11:26AM

    Wow, this sounds like a really healthy relationship.

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