My boyfriend resents my son
18 Answers to "My boyfriend resents my son"
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Then get rid of the boyfriend. Your loyalty should be to your son. Any man who resents a child should not be trusted with them.
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Then the boyfriend needs to go....no man is more important than your child....ever.
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Either explain to the BF that your son will always come before him, or dump him.
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fvck him then brake up =))
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Family should always come first in your life. Think of your son and if your boyfriend doesn't love your son, then it's best to leave him.
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get rid and quick before your son hates you.
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Time to get a new boyfriend!
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You need a new Boyfriend
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I absolutely love my fiances daughter ... but lately I have turned into a full time babysitter, helping her with her homework, cooking dinner, showers, laundry, bedtimes, getting ready for school, taking her to/from school, everything she even goes to work with me on the weekends. She never sees her biological mother (b/c her bio mom wont sign the vistation papers). My fiance's daughter has been in my life for 4 years and this past week she has made it very clear that i am JUST DADDYS FIANCE NOT HER MOM .... so yes, i do resent the things I do for her when she says "NO THATS DADDYS FIANCE" and doesnt use my name... but never would I resent her. I may not like her choice of words but I still love her ....
What I am trying to say it how much time to they spend together? Is he being smothered? Also, Who does the discipling you or him?
But- you said that the second your son does something "naughty" your bf blows up ?? Sounds like he's not ready to be in a mixed family relationship. I will admit there are times I blow up at my fiance's daughter but its normally something really bad. Like she could have gotten really hurt. Good Luck !!!Like (2)
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Your son is your life; if your boyfriend wants to be with you, he needs to accept your son, too. Your son should be your top priority here; any man who doesn't respect that, isn't an honorable man. Your first job is to take care of your son and look after his best interests. Any man who wants to be your #1 all the time, is likely to be a very controlling man with some huge anger issues. If it comes down to a choice, you must choose your son first. Your boyfriend needs to either grow up and accept reality, or he needs to be shown the door in which he can walk out of.
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don't look long term with him,
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a recipe for disaster.. Most likely it won't work out, unless you can both talk this out thoroughly
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time to leave him..you son comes first!!!! don't be one of those looser moms that picks a guy over their kid!! your son will hate you later!!!!
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You need to give him his walking papers ... pronto!!!!
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Talk to your son honestly and see what he thinks of the guy honestly, if he's old enough. You should be looking for a guy that would be a good perspective father as much as a good partner for you. If this guy doesn't like your son, he's not worth the time of day to you. Dump him, your kid comes first.
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& its your fault
...so now what?Like (1)
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Easy for you to say its my fault.....Like (1)
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Easy? No. Sad? Yes. No child deserves less than love from a parent. Here you've INVITED a person into his life that does not care for him. Did your son go out & seek your boyfriend or did you?? Again, its your fault.. Now what???
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Maybe your son hates him for replacing his father?
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The sad thing is my son really loves him and is always so quick to forgive him when he shouts at him. My son always wants to be around my boyfriend doing "guy" things and it works for a while but as soon as my son makes a mistake or is naughty my boyfriend "blows" big time! My boyfriend thinks my son's naughty behaviour is a personal vendetta against him. It is rather frustrating!
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No i didnt read it the other way around. Maybe the boyfriend resents the son because the son hates the fact that the boyfriend replaced the father.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by tezza333 Feb 11th, 2013 at 9:28AM
Find another boyfriend!
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Reply by tezza333 Feb 15th, 2013 at 1:57AM
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