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My boyfriend says he wants to know whats it would be like to tell another girl she is cute.I don't think this is ok.help

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21 Answers to "My boyfriend says he wants to know whats it would be like to tell another girl she is cute.I don't think this is ok.help"

  1. Fazer - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Fazer Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:34PM

    I think you should show him what it's like to be without a girlfriend then.

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  2. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:38PM

    Holy S$5t, at least he's being honest and saying it out loud. Better then holding it in and cheating. Everyone has issues and desires. Way to reward someone for honestly telling you their desire. Maybe he didn't have a GF before... that would make sense. You give retarded advice.

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  3. Fazer - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Fazer Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:41PM

    Someone who obviously cares so little about his girlfriend's feelings isn't worth having. You give equally retarded advice I see.

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  4. KingofSwords - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by KingofSwords Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:34PM

    I think your boyfriend needs to grow up. He's trying to see if he can get a rise out of you. He's being a dope.

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  5. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Oddandsingular Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:34PM

    what is he...12?

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  6. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:42PM

    Do you have the compassion of a 12 year old? I told this to my wife once... and she understood. And had sympathy.. and we worked through it together.

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  7. Oddandsingular - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Oddandsingular Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:47PM

    how nice for you

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  8. sintobus - 22-25 years old

    Posted by sintobus Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:34PM

    Tell him your not okay with it then...

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  9. Spann0r - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Spann0r Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:52PM

    He sounds like an idiot. Would he also like to know what it would be like to tell another girl how well he urinated this morning? The knowledge of both feelings is about equally unimportant. Knowing what getting a tattoo feels like is way more important, for example.

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  10. lingerieme - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by lingerieme Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:37PM

    BAD Idea .He isn't being truthful to you, sounds like he is wanting to go and see what else is outthere. Are you sure that is all he wants to do?

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  11. starship33 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by starship33 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:35PM

    how would he feel if you flurted with someone who is interested in you. he is opening up a can of worms.

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  12. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:44PM

    the can of worms is open, and always was. Supressing it is no good. What are you going to do about it though?

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  13. originnone - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by originnone Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:35PM

    It's ok in a vacuum. I'd be more concerned if there's a deeper issue that makes him want to do that.

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  14. yulico - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by yulico Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:51PM

    OK the answer is easy. You find some girl that you think is cute, go up to her and say "I think you are cute!" Then go back to boyfriend, tell him what it felt like. Now he has answer to his question. If he still want to find out for himself, dump him!

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  15. DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:43PM

    Tell him stop hurting you and your not taking his crap , you got to be bold with him so what if he breaks up with you there is more guys out there he shouldn't be so mean

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  16. TheSquirrel - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by TheSquirrel Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:36PM

    I could tell another woman she was attractive the entire time I was married, and my wife could tell a man he was -- or I tell a man and she tell a woman. There is a difference between acknowledging that a person is attractive and hitting on that person.

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  17. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:41PM

    very nice... its hard to speak up when your shy, like I was. The desire to say your impression of someone is very real and very important. But you can still have control of yourself and honesty. Its a good sign he said it outloud. Hiding it would be bad.

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  18. ineedsomeadvice - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ineedsomeadvice Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    he did hide it, i found something that made him have to admit it.

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  19. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:35PM

    he must have not a lot of experience with other girls... If you don't like something or if something bothers you, you should talk to him about it. But don't make him wrong like the other retards who answered this question.

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  20. ineedsomeadvice - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ineedsomeadvice Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:55PM

    what do you mean done make him wrong?

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  21. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:57PM

    blaming him would be like making him wrong. Saying 'something is wrong with you' for feeling that way or having that desire, instead of having compassion for the way he is feeling or why he is feeling that way inside. Maybe he is hurting inside...

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  22. hollyolly02 - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by hollyolly02 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:35PM

    you sound like youre 12....?

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  23. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:38PM

    you sound like your an @ss

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  24. hollyolly02 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by hollyolly02 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:40PM

    I'm not, I just don't believe that youngins should be on here!

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  25. underconstruction - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by underconstruction Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:34PM

    You list your age 22.

    Is your boyfriend 13 ?

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  26. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:45PM

    maybe he has the experience of a 13 year old with girls...

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  27. ineedsomeadvice - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by ineedsomeadvice Feb 10th, 2013 at 7:02PM

    he is 24 and i'm 23. Other thank our 2 year relationship. Hes only been in one other serious relationship. I'm not saying you have to date many people to have experience, but their relationship was very limited b.c half the time they were together. she lived in another state

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  28. MadamElle - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by MadamElle Feb 10th, 2013 at 6:33PM

    Trolololololz.

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  29. dskdw25q9n - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by dskdw25q9n Apr 3rd, 2013 at 5:42PM

    Comments of a personal nature should be restricted to situations where a personal relationship already exists. You don't tell somebody they are cute for the same reason that you don't tell somebody that they are obese.

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  30. Henryps - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Henryps Feb 10th, 2013 at 7:41PM

    Well I would just call him and idiot if I where you. That is just a bad move on his part ha-ha.

    I don't see the reason to get mad if you ask if so and so is attractive and he says yes but to tell you he wants to tell another girl shes cute is just stupid. Like stupid to the point that I am having a hard time comprehending what was going through his head. Maybe he wanted to make you jealous for some reason idk?

    Either way, don't take it too seriously, just tell him that was stupid and if he tries to argue then take him to get his head checked out and let that be the end of it.

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  31. LilAnnie - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by LilAnnie Feb 10th, 2013 at 7:37PM

    Tell him he doesn't have to wonder cause you'll show him. Then give him a good whollop upside his head. : ) Then pray he has a sense of humor.

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  32. lederman - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by lederman Feb 10th, 2013 at 7:33PM

    youre right, its not okay, i would dump someone like that

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  33. Lucinnda - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Lucinnda Feb 10th, 2013 at 7:06PM

    you're not 22. anyway, dump the dope. you're going to break up anyway.

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