My boyfriend sleeps all day and its affecting our relationship, how can I get him to be more motivated?
We have been dating for 6 years and living together for 1 year, since we got our new apartment he has been staying up until 6 or 7 in the morning and sleeping until 8 or 9 at night. I don't know anyone in our new city so I spend the whole day alone waiting for him to wake up. He never wants to go out and do anything and if he promises me we will he sleeps until it is too late to go do it anyway. He doesn't hang out with his friends because he sleeps then complains that they never invite him out. I know it is just an alternative sleep pattern and that it is kind of selfish of me to expect him to change to mine but it is effecting his life too. He failed all his classes at school because he wouldn't wake up and go to the lectures. I have tried talking to him and he always promises he'll start waking up earlier if I get him up but when I go to wake him up he gets mad at me and yells at me to leave him alone. I don't know what to do anymore.