You should only go ahead with that if it's something you really want to do. Obviously this isn't the case. He has no right to push you into doing something you do not want to do. He sounds like a really selfish person. All he cares about is his own desire. Also, physical abuse is never alright. Besides not giving into his demands, I would break the whole thing off if I were you. This is obviously not a healthy relationship.
HE IS RIGHT!!! LISTEN TO THIS MAN.
OMG: he slapped you; Do not SLEEP with him! EVER!!!!!!!!!!!! Get rid of him. He will do it again.
NO means NO. Don't do it.
And get rid of him!! He's an abusive jerk!
This guy is a jerk. You're not even old enough to be having sex for a start. Tell him where to go, you don't need him.
There are three basic things in a relationship:<br />
1-Don't do something that you don't want<br />
2-Don't change who you are<br />
3-Don't let yourself be abused<br />
If he tries to make you do one of those things tell him that if he doesn't stop you will leave him, if someone don't like you for who you are they don't deserve to be with you.
No means no. Even if your fully naked and say no it means no. Take your time and only when your ready say maybe. If he slapped you dump him violence of this sort is wrong. Your right he should not pressurise you.
Once he hits you, for any reason, you need to get the hell away from him. He was this close to raping you if he got that angry and out of control because you said no, which by the way, was VERY mature. Maintain your self respect and do not let him manipulate you into s3x. He WILL hit you again and again if you stay
Run. If he slapped you because you wouldn't have sex with him, he's not a nice guy and odds are, it's going to get worse. The only person who can tell you when it's the right time to have sex is YOU. Don't apologize for not being ready. That is a big decision and shouldn't be taken lightly. <br />
My advice is to run away.
The question you should ask yourself is that would you like to be with a person who abuses you physically because you hesitated to have sex with him? Be smart. Don't be with someone who physically harms you. It will only get worse in the future.
you have plenty of time for sex. don't let this idiot rush you into something you don't want to do. He's a guy who wants to boast about having sex with his friends.
I would say your a little young for the responsibilities needed for someone that is sexually active. Make sure your ready before you proceed. It is very frustrating for a teenager that is turned on and expects sex to be stopped. Some get angry and violent but it doesn't make it right. I
I think you shouldn't want to be with someone that gets violent. find someone closer to your own age. In a lot of places it is statutory rape to have sex with someone that is more than two years older than you. even when you are both underage. If/when you do use double birth control.
You have to what you feel is right. Your first time will probably be award but you should want to do it.
It's your body and your first time. He was a b*stard for hitting you. That's NOT love.
Nope, you weren't. It's OK not to be ready. That doesn't make you a b*tch. Honest.
He's too old for you. You're too young to be having sex anyway, but even if you weren't, someone who would hit you because you weren't ready could conceivably force you. He's being abusive. Get away from him ASAP.
A) Not a ****** move if you decided you're not comfortable with it. You're very young and this is a big step / decision. <br />
B) No one should pressure you into this. You got it right - if he truly cared about you he wouldn't pressure you.<br />
C) The fact that he got mad and slapped you is a HUGE red flag. Combine that with him pressuring you and I'd drop his sorry ***.
Tell him that if he loves you he will wait until you are ready. If he keeps yammering about it afterward, assume he doesn't really love you for the right reasons
Tell him no.. you are too young for that. He could wait. If he is too much in a hurry you could get a better bf!
How dare he slap you! Do you really want to be with someone who is going to continually whine until you do what he wants and slap you if you don't? That's terrible. Whatever else you decide to do make sure you're on the pill and try not to be alone with him no matter how much you like the kissing and petting until you've decided yes or no. Talk to your Mother.
Tell him to respect your boundaries or shove off.
Tell that bastard to go fvck himself!
You are one big dummy if you don't dump this guy.
Dump him,now! You're not old enough to be having sex and you should not be with a guy who's pressuring you.