Don't play god, play goalie with your brothers virginity. He is a rare man and doesn't deserve to be played by a money hungry beeatch .. know what I mean?
If you can't see her as a sister and someone you could trust your secrets to then please don't bait your brother with her because he will love the first girl he lays
If you don't like her please send her on her way. Your brother wants a woman he can keep forever, and he needs side to approve it!
Leave him alone and let him be in charge of his own dating life. You do not know his preference of what he's looking for. A friend of mine decided she was going to introduce me to a guy that I was not attracted to. She even gave him my number without my consent and I had to turn this guy down, as he was disappointed and time and energy was wasted. Please, do not meddle in his life in that way. <br />
So he's a 25-year-old virgin? So what? I think getting laid is a bit overrated and tends to rule people's lives. I give him big props for maintaining some self-control then to be ruled by his hormones. I think he's setting himself up to find someone with good quality rather than just random women here and there.
Let him be. People who don't trouble themselves with sex, either by design or by choice, are the great minds of our world.
Where is the question?
He is going to make his own mistakes.
thinking of a family taboo ?
and still looking for taboo ? shame. lol
Cool, hope you find someone right for him.
He's fishing in the wrong pond then!
I know you care about your brother and it is really sweet of you but you have to leave him alone. It's not worth setting him up with girls who might not be good for him. Remember all the sexual diseases like HIV going. Can you handle it if he gets infected? If he asked for advices on relationship and all the strings with it, you can guide him but setting him up for that fall, however good intention it may be, may not work out well.
Throw a birthday party for him.<br />
Invite as many of his friends as possible, <br />
and ask them to bring not just their BFs/GFs <br />
but also a single woman of appropriate age and interests. <br />
Aim to have about 30 people. <br />
Arrange it so that there is not just music, but plenty of quiet places to talk.<br />
This way, he has an opportunity to meet women, and choose for himself.<br />
Other than this broad sweep method, leave him to find his own way.<br />
Sometimes there are good reasons for not being involved, <br />
(many possible. <br />
eg. fear of a controlling mother making him terrified of a woman's emotional hooks.)<br />
In our culture, unless we want to return to arranged marriages, <br />
each must find their own way.
Its strange because I have a 24 year old brother and I don't know if he is a virgin or not. He has never had a relationship, or brought a girl around. He's good looking, athletic, fashionable and all that stuff girls want etc. <br />
I know its not my business or anything but it really does cross my mind at times o.O
hmmm...do we have a 40 yr old Virgin in the making here???
Did he ask you to hook him up?
yeah get that boy some *** lol