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Dad was going to live with us because it became impossible for mom to stay at home with advanced Alzheimers. So mom went to the nursing home and my dad just fell apart. My little sister took away all his independence, check book, etc. Dad just gave up and passed away in June. Well Jane now wants me to pay her the money saying that she can't keep all the bills paid for the upkeep of the house. She is being really mean and spreading lies about my daughter who took care of my parents for four months while she was home from college. It's basically my two sisters that are being unreasonable. We were a very tight family but as I see the absence of my parents they are turning into tyrants and it sickens me and I can't even imagine what it would do to our Dad. He was a very loving, giving, gracious man who loved all people and took care of all people his whole life. Jane got his check book because she found out he was sending about $1M a month to charity.
Maryforfamily Maryforfamily 46-50 9 Answers Oct 23, 2010

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just ignore her..dont give her a dime

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to maryforfamily... walk away. Matter of fact RUN!! Your sister sounds like an narcissistic -abusive sister. Wash your hands of them all!! I am going through the same thing. I lived with mom til her stroke... I had creditors wanting money that I didn't had since I lost my job. Afraid of creditors doing eletronic funds transferrs by using bank routing numbers and my account number... Mom open an separate bank account which only my money was deposited and it protected my money. Mom only lived on little over thousand dollars in social security and 600. in pension each month. I deposited mine and my sons social security checks and child support into that account. I help mom pay for her meds out of that account and at the same time paid my mortgage. After she died, my sister now executorix is saying "I owe the family that money back" she knows its was my money!!!! This occurred back in 2005 through march of 2007.Now she and my brothers saying mom paid my house payments... in fact the money was mine! Mom left a will for her home to be sold. My home is only in my name never had I sign my home over to mom so her name is NOT on my home.

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Whose house can't Jane pay the bills for? If it is your parents house, then use your dad's money to pay the bills until the estate is settled. If it is Jane's house, then too bad for her!

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She says my parents house but I found out she is lying about that too. She has taken the money and hid it so that the state won't take it for the nursing home. That money was never given to me as a loan, Dad wanted to help so that when Mom went to the nursing home (Alzheimers) he could come live with us. He just didn't live long after my sisters took everything away from him.

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Money is not important family is, if you do not need the money to survive then give it to your sister, God always provides.

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We spent the money building space for Dad to live with us. That was the basis for why he gave to us at all. Now he is gone and she's gotten control and is letting greed tear us apart. I only told all 6 of my siblings about the loan because when the estate does settle after my mom passes I wanted them to deduct that from my share.

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Kill her.

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I hope you are being funny. It's just exhausting to find out what is really important to family.

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