The same thing happened to me. I did agree to go as a French maid and my girlfriend went as a Dominatrix. We were the hit of the party. The only thing I regret is not ob<x>jecting to my girlfriend letting her friends spank me. I was quite sore by the end of the night. Ouch! But, I was trying to stay in the role.
sounds hot, go for it
I'm thinking a new date with better manners and taste.
Show up Commando style.
If you don't know many people at the party, then I have to assume they don't know you either. Give it a try.
Good for you! A confidence building experience never hurts.
It's amazing that a man will pursue a woman and then try to control her life. If you want to wear a roman toga, that's what you should wear. He went ahead and bought the maid costume so you couldn't refuse to wear it. Don't fall for that trick. If he saved his receipt, he can return the costume and get his money back. Otherwise, he'll just be stuck with it and learn a good lesson!
I love this answer!!!!!!!!!!
If you;d find the maid's costume embarrassing, then don't wear it. It's nice to have (and keep) self-respect
Ask your girlfriend what's in it for you. Unless of course you secretly want to. I know I would.
Sounds like you are going to look dead sexy in the maid's outfit.
Wear the outfit. It's a party. You said you know almost no one. He is obviously proud to be seen with you and you might take the hint and be proud of the woman you are.<br />
Guess I shoulda found out you were cross dressing...still go for it!
You should put it in a story then !
you are a man or a wimp sissy , tell your date that you wear the Roman toga and she can use the maid outfit, and when she get on, clean your house.
That in which you wish to present yourself to that segment of your world. As is, yours is a symbol of the debauchery of a civilization long dead. His, a similar symbol of one in the process of its own collapse. At, say, a Halloween or key party, each seems appropriate enough. It all comes down to just how close to the bone that you are comfortable cutting the meat.
Do what you want to do, the idea is to have fun and being embarrassed is not going to be fun! Wear the sexy one later...
Forget your date,lets go out together. You can wear what you want. I'm sure you will look fab in anything.
If he was thinking of dressing as a butler or the master of the house switch costumes with him.<br />
It will be a lot funnier. <br />
If he wasn't even planning on dressing the opposite part. you put on what makes you comfortable. <br />
I personally looked at Halloween as a chance to go a little wild.
Yes. To keep him happy you could wear that under a toga and see how the evening goes. Personally speaking I would go for the toga but if he has a thing about the outfit just wear it underneath......
Wear what YOU want to wear.
Your choice ,take the maids uniform and change it for your toga.
Wear the maid costume and make it your a real wig shave your legs get your make up done by a pro. I would even get breast form not just padding and mabe that will scare her into never asking you to cross dress again when she sees your really into it..I'm just saying
Don't wear the maid costume if you will be embarrassed. If he says anything, insist he wear it