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My ex and i split up 10mths now, yet i still feel him and hear him callin me why wont he let me go?

He left me for someone else... I do miss him but I didnt want to hold on to him if he didnt want to stay and if he truely found someone he loves. I do not contact him and if he do contact me i remain amicable towards him. I do still love him but not enough to argue fuss or fight. I'm happy for him and his new partner and also happy with my life but yet night and day I feel him and hear him calling my name why??

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SongOfaLife	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 12:13PM My ex left me about 5 months ago. Each day I try to move one step forward forgetting her. But I'm not sure whether I'm moving forward, coz there's not a single moment that I don't miss her. It's hard to let go. Yes it's really hard. But I'm guessing time will give the answer, in your case also. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Haphazard	Posted Sep 6th, 2009 at 11:13AM I'm confused- it sounds like you're the one who needs to let him go. He's gone, yet you reckon you can still feel and hear him???? Rated: +2Vote for this!
blacksheep5	Posted Sep 6th, 2009 at 7:32AM In your head you've let him go but not in your heart. You need to put your love for him in it's proper perspective. Then and only then you will not hear his voice calling you. Rated: +1Vote for this!
llgmaryland	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 12:09AM break the soul tie Rated: +1Vote for this!
britchic32	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 1:46AM only time will heal babe.... Rated: +1Vote for this!
nomedeplume	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 5:14AM You have been reading too much Jane Eyre Rated: +1Vote for this!
bricmpt	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 12:16PM Well, if it gets too bad, try spych meds. I have a shirt that reads "I used to care but now I take a pill for that." It's the modern way of life. :-P Because men and women don't need each other what with pron for men and welfare & women's lib for women... Why have relationships any more at all? Rated: +1Vote for this!
theologian	Posted Sep 7th, 2009 at 6:07PM letting go can be the hardest thing of all. here's a ritual if you so wish, to help sever the bond of love - so that you may be friends once again. find a place alone - somewhere you can draw on the earth. draw a circle around you - with your hands or a rod of some sort. say "tialla" sing "tialla" laugh "tialla" - set a white stone in each of the four directions while remaining in the circle. When it feels right you may exit. hope this helps! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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