My ex boyfriend keeps trying to hurt me by gettin back with me and then dumping me what should i do?

Well I know it's kinda obvious but...

QUIT GOING BACK TO HIM

i really like kicking people in the face
SO when i saw that as a response i was like hell yea!!!
seriously so
you are letting this happen
i mean of course your like yaaa maybe this time

NO
not that time
not ever
he wont change
PEOPLE never change
it doesnt happen
they are how they are
and there is nothing u can personally do to change that
just leave him
and find another guy to make him jealous
make him realize why he was with u to begin with
make him wish he was that guy...
and when HE comes crawling to you
you get the pleasure of saying
NO

Give him a ticket to Dumpsville. I'm talking about a one way ticket. He's only hurting you because you allow him to.

Why would you let a man do this to you? Get rid of his ***. Tell him to take a hike. Never look back. Never take him back. Move on to someone else.

all of the above ...BUT... you don't have to take him back, plenty more fish in the ocean.... reel some in and enjoy.

And why are you allowing this ? Why do you let him hurt you this way ?.
Dump this guy ASAP and get some counseling to understand and modify your approach to life.

WOW.
I am sure if you re-read your question, you would have the answer right infront of you. Let me help you out:

you EX boyfriend (not your boyfriend anymore), keeps trying to HURT you (pain, nothing fun there), by GETTING BACK with you (because, there's obviously a reason you're not together), and then DUMPING YOU AGAIN (because that's all he wants to do when he get's back with you anyways.)

hm, have you found the answer yet??? I mean REALLY?

Obviously if you don't want to get HURT again, DON'T GO BACK OUT WITH HIM.

I honestly didn't want to dignify this question with an answer, but if you're really confused on what you should do, I thought "helping" wouldn't be a bad thing...


GET OVER IT, AND MOOOOOVEEE ONNNNNN.
or get hurt again. your call.

Get away from him.
Don't go back no matter how much you "love" him.

He is on a power trip and you are his toy.

The question is the answer on this one. Dump him and move on... for goodness sakes you are 18-21... there are more fish in the sea, right?

Those are narcissistic traits, if I ever heard them....

NO CONTACT....change your phone number....block him from emailing you....and DON'T go back with him.....

What he is doing is called idealization/devaluation.....so, he builds you up....compliments you, professes his love for you, blah blah blah....then, all of a sudden, you're a b*&**, or anything else he can drum up.....then, after he crushes you....he comes back for another round...

It's very dysfunctional, and it is very damaging to your self-esteem...protect yourself from him....He's a jerk.....and his goal is to bring you down....to control you...

Don't give him another opportunity to hurt you again....You deserve better than this, and you are way too young to put up with this kind of garbage.....Find someone who appreciates you, for who you are....Take care.

You should not get back with him again.

Stop talking to him.

You are either very young with self worth issues typical of your age. Or you are older with much more serious issues to deal with. You could also be lonely and like the attention you are getting from the answers to your question.

Be strong, stop taking him back and ignore him. Love you by building your self esteem. You are worth more than the headache of him.

Gain some confidence and kick him in the face?

get a girl friend...

i have a similar problem but the only thing i cant get my message through. now you have to be strong and continue to say just one word NO!!!!! hes only using u cuz he too spinless to find another person to keep him!!!! ur better than that!!!!

Blow him off already girl! Have some pride in yourself!

You need to dump him for good. There are other guys out there and he is showing that he doesn't respect or want you. He's just using you.