Well, it's a bit late to do anything now, seeing that he's dead. In any event, you need to remember that it wasn't your fault. You had no obligation to subjugate your life and wishes to his. It is tragic that he killed himself, but, in the end, it was his decision and his alone.
It's not your responsibility that he chose the cowardly and selfish way to handle his problems. Obviously his intent was to make you feel guilty which has apparently worked but you don't let what he did stop you from continuing on with your life. You have to live for you and not someone else. Move on.
Don't blame yourself. You are not responsible for his actions now and never will be. If you are having trouble grieving and moving on, you may want to see a grief counselor. They really help.
cry and get LOTS of HUGS........it is in NO WAY your fault...sorry for your loss......get LOTS of hugs .......grief will manifest in all kinds of ways so all the feelings andthoughts you will have are valid.......except any involving you being in any way reponsible.......get LOTS OF HUGS......spend time with people who have experienced grief - they will be of tremendous support....get LOTS of HUGS.......
I just had the same experience, he said all he needed was to talk to me, but every time I did he tried to control my life again and he kept threaten me telling me that he would kill himself if he didn't have me in his life, until I couldn't take it anymore and i refuse to talk to him, I feel selfish and is hard not to blame my self =(
I had the same experience...all i wanted was some peace. Everytime i tried to stop talking to him he would threaten me to kill himself. Difference is...i was mean to him the night he commited suicide..so i do blame myself :'(
Not your doing the guy was ready to snap any way or he would never have done that. Something else was wrong with him, poeple break up all the time with out killing them selves.
You breath in, breath out and move on.....
but cry,,because he loved you!
It's your fault, ****.
Yes, it is your fault you heartless, shallow, egotistic *****. I hope you get cancer.
What a horrible thing to say. It is never your fault when someone takes their lives. Look back into their past. The problems were already there.
I broke up with my boyfriend n without warnin he killed himself while we were dating he always told me he lived me more then life n wud go insane without me my friends callede screaming at me it was my failt after 3 months cuz his brother told everyone it was cuz thts wat my ex said me exs last words were "i cnt take it anymore i cnt liv without her" so ik its my fualt but dont let anyone tell u it is it doesnt feel good try to move on n dont end up wanting to b dead as well like me best wishes
he wanted to die he had issues way before you.
In all honesty, you were a huge factor in why he commited suicide, and now that he's gone there's nothing you can do to fix it but keep on living how you want. Don't think for one second that it isn't you're fault. Judging from how you phrased the question, you didn't care much about him in the first place and should of broke up with him sooner.
Your a sick bastard who needs a therapist. What one does with their life is on them. You are a bully.
The irony in your judgement of his realism is laughable. What if he had killed myself because of your cruel rebutle? funny how you call me a bully while bullying me. But I digress, if a girl commits suicide because she was raped, of course she wasn't to blame for killing herself. Just like this boy didn't kill himself without the abuse of this girl. you and I both know he didn't get to that situation without help, or the lack thereof.