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gabbie2014 gabbie2014 18-21 7 Answers May 23 in Dating & Relationships

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Spend a lot of time reviewing your decision to break up and figure out if anything significant has changed.

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He says he has changed as he has knew friends and that he's not a **** like before

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why is he your ex

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We argued when we weren't together in person and it just got too much

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about what

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He moaned because I talk to boys but its not like I talk to loads of boys, they are just mates, I would never of hurt him, he put the blame on me for everything, he thought he was always right. He moaned because I went and saw my friend for a couple of days whilst he took time off work which I didn't know about to spend it with me. He says he's really sorry and all that and that he's changed

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You fück him and say "no baby, it's too late".

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Lol no kidding

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He's left it 5 months before saying all this

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What does your heart want?

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Idk, I have mixed feelings

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Don't jump into it if you're not ready. You need to find the things you enjoy to do, and then love to do them. It might be alright to test it out with a nice chat with him face to face and let him know how you feel. If you find it in your heart to love him again, don't rush anything at all. If you don't want his love anymore, Let him know that you have moved on, That you need your space to find your personal happiness.

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It's hard to make a decision because I don't want to upset him yet all we did was argue every week

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Do what will make you happy, If all you do is fight, then it's best to keep your distance. You can still love him, just not in the same way as before. All you can do is hope that he gets better on his own.

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I've lost feelings for him now though and I don't love him like I used to

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That's totally fine. Let him know that, but be kind with your words and let him know you've moved on.

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Should I stay friends with him

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It depends on why you split up

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We argued when we weren't together but I was so happy when I was with him in person

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Maybe you just need to have more open communication face to face

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He says he cares about me so much and he's really sorry for being a **** to me

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Sounds like this break up has been a learning curve for him. The decision lies with what you feel in your heart. Do you love him enough to give it one more go? Or has the arguments become just too much...

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I hated the arguments, I used to cry sometimes. I've just lost feelings for him and have stopped loving him, I don't want to make a mistake and go back to him and then we argue again but then what if he really has changed and he's not like before, he realised what he has done

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All the texts he has sent me are sweet about how sorry he is and all that and he is really convincing on making me think I should go back

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I think you've just answered your own question. Do you think if you lost your feelings for him, it'd be fair to lead him on thinking you still love him?

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I just read below comments, this is just my opinion but do I really think you deserve better

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I do really*

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If I still loved him and had feelings for him then yes I would go back but because I have lost feelings, there's no point going back, right?

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Yes that's what I'm thinking, why stay with someone you don't love?

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He's really convincing and it's hard because I don't want him to make him upset because of me

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What if he really has changed? Should I go back out with him and see how everything goes?

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Look at it from your point of view, do you think he was thinking about that when he upset you all the time? Sure he's gonna be upset, it's natural but he'd be even more upset if he knew he was in a relationship where there was no love. If I was in your shoes, I'd move on from the relationship. You've got to put your own happiness first instead of staying with someone to make them happy

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He said that I make him happy and all that :/ he wants to treat me better. He says he's grown up now

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Should I just stay friends with him?

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It's up to you but from experience you can't be friends with someone you love or loves you. It just doesn't work that way

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I guess he would just keep texting me saying how much he loves me...

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I've had experience with this and it didn't work at all. It messed up both our heads

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I will tell him how I feel and what I think is best but I will do it in person

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Thanks for the advice! :)

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No problem, good luck :)

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