Spend a lot of time reviewing your decision to break up and figure out if anything significant has changed.
why is he your ex
Usually it means, he wants one last lay.
You fück him and say "no baby, it's too late".
I think that's what the boyfriend wants.
Lol no kidding
What does your heart want?
Don't jump into it if you're not ready. You need to find the things you enjoy to do, and then love to do them. It might be alright to test it out with a nice chat with him face to face and let him know how you feel. If you find it in your heart to love him again, don't rush anything at all. If you don't want his love anymore, Let him know that you have moved on, That you need your space to find your personal happiness.
Do what will make you happy, If all you do is fight, then it's best to keep your distance. You can still love him, just not in the same way as before. All you can do is hope that he gets better on his own.
That's totally fine. Let him know that, but be kind with your words and let him know you've moved on.
It depends on why you split up
Maybe you just need to have more open communication face to face
Sounds like this break up has been a learning curve for him. The decision lies with what you feel in your heart. Do you love him enough to give it one more go? Or has the arguments become just too much...
I think you've just answered your own question. Do you think if you lost your feelings for him, it'd be fair to lead him on thinking you still love him?
I just read below comments, this is just my opinion but do I really think you deserve better
I do really*
Yes that's what I'm thinking, why stay with someone you don't love?
Look at it from your point of view, do you think he was thinking about that when he upset you all the time? Sure he's gonna be upset, it's natural but he'd be even more upset if he knew he was in a relationship where there was no love. If I was in your shoes, I'd move on from the relationship. You've got to put your own happiness first instead of staying with someone to make them happy
It's up to you but from experience you can't be friends with someone you love or loves you. It just doesn't work that way
I've had experience with this and it didn't work at all. It messed up both our heads
No problem, good luck :)