My ex wants nothing to do with me, but tries to make me jealous
Me & My ex-BF broke up. I tried to get him back, but he told me to move on, and has a new girlfriend. He even allowed his new girlfriend to text me, telling me to move as well. I have cut all ties with him, and I am working on moving on. I have family members who still have contact with him through social media. He has new pics with his new girlfriend and deleted the older pics from our past relationship. He is very aware that In the past I have SPIED on his page through family, and also aware that my family tells me everything that he does. After being informed about this, I have asked my family members to un-friend him. His profile has always been private, suddenly he has made it Public, coincidentally after my family members un-friended him. I find it funny that he would go out his way to change his profile from private to public. What do you guys think?
5 Answers to "My ex wants nothing to do with me, but tries to make me jealous"
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He may be looking for validation due to insecurity. He may be feeling hurt or unloved through some gap in his perception, like he hasn't learned to fully love himself so he looks for reasons that others don't fully love him.
It's hard to tell with just isolated details, but honestly just learn to accept it, draw your emotions from inside yourself knowing that it doesn't really matter what anyone thinks of you. The most you can do is be a good example by taking best care of yourself that you can.Like (2)
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good. get away.. he is not correct for u... move on and move out of this ****
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I think you're thinking way too much about it and that you may not fully be over him; it's one thing to say you are, to deny it, and another to still have some feelings inside you for him. I think you just need to stop checking his web page or any other internet spot where he may be on, and just get him off your mind completely. He may be trying to make you jealous, I'm not sure if he is or not, he could also have some anger inside him at your breakup and wants to gloat over his newfound happiness and the fact that you have not moved on yet.
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I still have feelings for him, our break-up is very new. I agree with you. I have cut ALL contact, my famliy has also. I am moving on.
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I think you BOTH have to move on and stop the madness
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Your right, Im working on it, will be better over time
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Good! the fact that he had his goofy gf tell you to move on says that he is an immature jerk.
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Posted by wanderingsoul19 Mar 7th, 2013 at 11:56AM
he still has some sort of feelings for you. in my opinion, if you have any sort of emotion towards an ex, whether it's love or hate, you still have a place for them in your heart
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