Record his call to you then call his new girlfriend and bust him to her. Problem solved.
Um, because he's a scumbag/jerkoff. What part of this are you missing?
He is probably trying to play manipulative mind games with you.<br />
He, by the sounds, is not worth your time and effort.<br />
Either that, or he's trying to make you feel jealous.
because he is a lame piece of crap who wants to have you both on the hook.
It may be that he feel you have been through a lot together and he wants to keep you in his life. With every lost .love is a lesson learned maybe he is grateful for what you have taught him.
He is keeping his options option. Maybe it isn´t going as well as he says and he has doubts, so he wants to make sure his plan `B´ is secure before he drops the bomb on his plan ´A´. <br />
But, I will tell you know, you will never be his plan ´A´. So unless you want to be plan ´B´ forever, grab a hold of yourself, and go on. Even if you have to fake it, go on, it will be real soon enough.<br />
Finally, who cares what he is doing. Your life is about you, not him! Even if he´s on your mind all the time, do the things a person would do, who was indifferent to him. The best cure.
It could be that he has a type of love for you that is not romantic. The "thrill" might not have been present in your relationship with him but he'd developed love for you as a person. If you are familiar with the Greek words for love, I would say he has an agape love for you but not an eros love. He cares about your feelings. <br />
Another possibility is that it is now easier for him to see the good in what he had with you and things are not so great with his girlfriend.<br />
He might be willing to tell you why he calls if you two have a nice heart to heart conversation.
beoucse he wants two and he cant so tell him it you or her and if he cosses her then tell him to stop calling beocuse you cant keep putting your self threw that
He wants to have his cake and eat it too? He is unwilling to let you go, even though he supposedly cares about this other person. Or he wants you to think he cares about her while making sure you continue to care about him? Perhaps he is a junior pla<x>yer??<br />
To me, he sounds self absorbed and immature. I wonder if his new girlfriend is aware that he is calling you? Whatta ya think? <br />
I always know that my exhusband is having trouble with his new relationship when he suddenly starts paying friendly attention to me....I cut it off, quick! I am not anyone's standby relationship.
Yet he says he loves her very much? Quite a character there. The question is, why are you still talking to him, knowing the type of person he is?