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My family hate me cause they listen to lies, is it time to end my misery.

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    wanderingsage - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by wanderingsage Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:12AM

    Time to knock off your family

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5 Answers to "My family hate me cause they listen to lies, is it time to end my misery."

  1. musicbook - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by musicbook Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:24AM

    It's probably time to realize that, if you made it to adulthood without starving or fatally bumping your head, your family's job is over.

    As adults, we get to build our OWN family with friends, neighbors, children, a partner, etc. If your family of origin lacked humor, affection, loyalty, whatever... you can make certain that your adult family consists of people who HAVE those qualities.

    Let's face it... Many of us have family members we share nothing in common with. If we met them at a party or on a plane, we would not become friends. There isn't much we can do about our family at the age of 5, but at 25 we can certainly pick and choose which of our relatives add love and value to our lives.

    Concentrate on filling your life with the kind of people you want filling it.

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  2. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:13AM

    No, it is not time for you to end your misery. Families can be toxic, which means that being in their presence is not healthy for your wellbeing, and as soon as you can get out of that environment, get out and then keep your distance from them. Families are supposed to have our backs, be our support system, and treat us in a loving way, but it doesn't always work out that way. You don't get to choose your family, but you can someday establish your own, based on people who have your back, are there for you, and treat you the way you deserve.

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  3. onwayout - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by onwayout Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:13AM

    No, it is not time for you to end your misery. Families can be toxic, which means that being in their presence is not healthy for your wellbeing, and as soon as you can get out of that environment, get out and then keep your distance from them. Families are supposed to have our backs, be our support system, and treat us in a loving way, but it doesn't always work out that way. You don't get to choose your family, but you can someday establish your own, based on people who have your back, are there for you, and treat you the way you deserve.

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  4. beachmama - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by beachmama Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:13AM

    what do you mean end your misery??? you talking about killing yourself then NO! leave and get away from them if they make you miserable but there is nothing to kill yourself over

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  5. allaloneinthisworld - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by allaloneinthisworld Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:15AM

    I have left them, i live with my own family, but they are telling everyone in my circle of friends, lies, my mother, brothers everyone, i cant stand it no more!!!

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  6. beachmama - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by beachmama Oct 16th, 2012 at 7:20AM

    if the ones you talk to are your true friends and they know you then they wont believe them and if not then you dont need friends that believe them..if your friends have questions they should ask you and not listen to others...and i would block and delete them from anything i am on...i hope it all works out for you sweetie..good luck and ill say a lil prayer for you

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