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My father is in my moms house in her room with another woman sleeping.I no longer feel at home. what 2 do?

dont miss understand. i've been here two months because i've moved from out of state (not a 22 yr old living at home- more like trying to find a place ), she walks around here to comfortable its weird. My mother owns the house in which he is staying with the woman and i don't want to tell him to get out. because i have a pretty violent history with him growing up as a child and all i really want is PEACE. I just want to understand why im so angry ? when things are not fair like this should i take matters into my own hands ? ( mother want them gone to by the way) im his son and im really not trying to make things worse

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  1. stronggeorge - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by stronggeorge Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:26PM

    At your age, you should stop being in the way and move out. Are you really going to play video games at your dads house for the next 50 years? Each one of us owes $53K on the debt and you worry about your dad porking someone? Hey, have your mom give me a call. maybe we can hook-up.

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  2. 2011A - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by 2011A Oct 31st, 2012 at 8:00AM

    This is insensitive, really. And rather crude. Can you not be realistic and gentle at the same time? This is certainly not intense.

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  3. stronggeorge - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by stronggeorge Oct 31st, 2012 at 9:47AM

    I re-read and agree it was a bit too harsh.

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  4. ablford36 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by ablford36 Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:22PM

    why are you still living there?

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  5. 2011A - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by 2011A Oct 31st, 2012 at 8:03AM

    Find a way to make it on your own.
    Leave that place. It is not really your home.
    It is hard to survive at first, but you learn quickly.
    Tell your mom and dad and this woman how you feel carefully and with courage.
    And find a way to make it on your own.
    Being an adult is not easy, but it is well worth it.
    And you can learn from this. Strength. Patience. Survival.
    Good luck to you.

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  6. Perksplayhot - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Perksplayhot Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:58PM

    You can not ignore. You can not move out, because you would have by now. why doesn't your mother report to the police, I am sure there must be a law, against this..what do you think? report to police...illegal unhealthy activities in my house..adultery !
    yessssssssssss

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  7. sauci - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by sauci Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:29PM

    Well first of all where is your Mom, and how long has she been gone? Things happen , People change , move on etc.You can either respect that you Dad is trying to do that or start looking for another place to live

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  8. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Posted by toistory Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:29PM

    Move out.

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  9. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wigglebottom Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:25PM

    From one Armstrong to another, you say and do nothing until you can talk to your father privately about what is going on.
    You just never know what deals or arraingments your Mom and your Dad may have.
    Many people have open marriages and things like that.

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  10. hiddenme - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by hiddenme Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:23PM

    Talk to your farther and tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable or go out

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  11. underconstruction - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by underconstruction Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:22PM

    Go for a walk and look for an apartment.

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  12. redneck123 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by redneck123 Oct 30th, 2012 at 10:22PM

    as old as you are why are you still living at home

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