My fiancé lied about his finances, we are flat broke. See details.
How to tell him I am still resentful for our financial situation due to his lying and lying it self? Nov/11 we reconnected. (went to the same HS) in our late 30s.Presented himself as fianancially stable, just moved back to home town, semi-retired from successful business & divorced. We have no kids. Owns home/cars and no credit debt. Over the next 1.5 yrs we went on 4 vacays ($2k-$10k), bought me a $10k engagement ring, a $20k car, and $15k to upgrade my house to rent. shopped, new boat, ATVs, pool put in. foolishly quit my job, his suggestion, moved in. He still does nice things for me, but I can't get past the lying. truth is he is only divorced since Jan, it was settlement money and there is no more. He works Now once I called bs on the lies. We barely make groceries stretch paycheck to paycheck, jobs are scarce and I'm embarrassed to tell my family. I hate the deceit!!!! But love the man...marriage is a no at this point. The logistics of leaving are tricky, but I want.