Sending you love honey. May I suggest you find what really makes you happy and ditch the excess weight ( a fiancee that doesn't treat u right I mean)<br />
Don't let anybody make you feel bad about yourself
You are the enabler by letting him treat you like this.<br />
Leave he is not for you, and that is abuse you will only<br />
end up depressed if you stay. Value yourself more and<br />
leave to find a better day. Go and stay with family and<br />
friends who care for you. Gradually you will get your self<br />
esteem back if you leave. Think about it. We only live once.
It's not your problem, it's his! He's trying to turn it into your problem - not fair huh? If he's doing this now, imagine being married to him. That SHOULD fill you with security and love - if it doesn't, leave him. He's not worthy of you, and the insults rather suggest that he knows it.
Why is that douch your fiancee? Screw his self rightous ignorance. ewwwwww<br />
you know I'm usually nice... just so you know this is the first rotten thing I have ever commented about another person.
Don't hate yourself... seek your happiness else where.. with someone who'll appreciate your beauty.. Never mind him!
After you throw this *** away you may want to find out why you like men that treat you so bad.
DONOT MARRY HIM...please your life will become a living hell. everybody here has told why you shouldnt and deep down you know they are speaking the truth. this man is not good enough for you....dont you see? not good enough for you.<br />
weight and prettiness has nothing to do with it at all. if your sister or somebody close was about to commit to an abuse man,think of what you would tell her and then say it to yourself. men come and go but self esteem is hard hard to recover when lost in this way
You need to either train him or drop him. A fiancee is not supposed to make you feel badly about yourself. I'd let him walk. At least so he could do some soul searching of his own.
If you lose weight he'll just find some other way to make you feel like crap.<br />
Why? possibly because he fears you'll leave him, and/or possibly because he gets a rush from getting someone totally under his thumb.<br />
This dude is verbally abusive, and that can often be a buildup to physical and sexual abuse.<br />
Don't walk, RUN!
Omg you have got a horrible natured man there and the thing is they do not improve i know as my sister went on to marry one and to this day he is horrible through and through shes put up with so much and for what. To share a life with a horrible man id rather be single and work on making my life more forfilling.
Call off the wedding, he sounds like a douche bag. If he's bad now just think of how much worse he will be after you get married.