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My friend and I talk to these two guy friends, we've noticed they each take a long time to reply, what does this mean?

They do occasionally start the conversations and do ask questions, we see them out in public sometimes but all four of us are shy!
We talk to them via facebook so we can see their activity posting status' and such so they're online but yet can take a day to reply.
Why do some guys do this?
I'm not sure what else to add, they're friendly and have "liked" status' and photos of ours so they pay attention and take somewhat interest.
We're just both confused where we stand with them, are we nothing and we should just not worry?
Do guys not really pay that much attention to their inboxes or could they just be shy? and not have much to say?
We're obviously interested in them haha.

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  1. Christy421 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Christy421 Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:25AM

    They have important stuff to do and only reply when they have nothing to do. At least that is the way I operate.

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  2. theoldgoat - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by theoldgoat Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:21AM

    slow internet connection

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  3. headachey - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by headachey Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:23AM

    No, as we can see they're off doing other things.

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  4. TrackyDaks - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by TrackyDaks Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:16AM

    They're keeping you keen and its working.

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  5. headachey - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by headachey Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:21AM

    haha true, I'm leaving the country soon though so a bit silly!

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  6. inabit - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by inabit Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:26AM

    where are you going

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  7. ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ChipmunkErnie Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:16AM

    Can't speak for all guys, but unless I'm totally bored I only check in-boxes once or twice day, if that often.

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  8. Cerxx - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Cerxx Apr 20th, 2012 at 9:09AM

    They are young probably don't want to say thi gs in public Facebook
    Try text or email I'd just cAll thd guy!

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  9. headachey - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by headachey Apr 20th, 2012 at 9:17AM

    It's in chat so similar to text or email

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  10. Cerxx - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Cerxx Apr 20th, 2012 at 9:21AM

    My son 18 hates email chatting and facebook he says I have to write! He Sks ne why diesnt she just call me if she wAnts to talk ??? Constant cimplain

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  11. lickitysplit - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by lickitysplit Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:47AM

    If you are following these guys and notice what they are doing, what are their interests? Gaming, Sports, computers? Try asking them a question about something they find interesting? Are these guys even into girls at all? Some guys are late bloomers or they lack the confidence to believe that any girl might be interested in them. If they are on the geeky side, maybe they have been hurt by a girl or girls pretending to like them only to find ways to put them down or embarrass them.

    You have to realize that in most of our society, women hold the social power. Women choose or reject men who pursue them. Sure, there are some guys who are very confident and forward, but most guys are afraid of being rejected by girls and thus are hesitant to show interest. They don't want to show interest and then be rejected.

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  12. headachey - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by headachey Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:51AM

    Second paragraph completely agree with but goes both ways to me. They are interested in girls even seen one making out with a girl! Um that's usually what we talk about just little interests we share, they just take a day or so to reply and sometimes they don't, even though they've asked the questions! We're all above 20 so not late bloomers haha.

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  13. FoggyKoala - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by FoggyKoala Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:21AM

    It could mean a wide range of things. The best way, i think, would be sharing what you feel and asking, how they feel about you two. This would be best done in person. Good luck!

    "Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace." -Buddha

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  14. headachey - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by headachey Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:23AM

    We don't know each other well enough to ask that sort of thing haha because of not much communication i guess.

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  15. FoggyKoala - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by FoggyKoala Apr 20th, 2012 at 8:31AM

    Oh well, then just ask them out for a date (separate dates for the two of you).

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