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What is love for you? And how do you know if it's actually just a crush or something more? Yeah, she keeps pestering me on my 3 year crush on this one guy. For crying out loud, it's just a stupid crush! I don't even know why I like him...
harunosakura harunosakura 13-15, F 5 Answers Oct 14, 2012 in Crushes & Obsessions

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I don't wanna be the "you're too young to understand these things" guy (hell, I've never been in love) but don't you think it's a little early to decide it doesn't exist?

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Hmmm... You have a point. But i really can't see myself "falling in love" with anyone. It just seems a little too fairytale-ish to me. So, yeah. :)

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Maybe that just means you've got an overly romanticised idea of what it means? The people I know who are in love aren't serenading each other on balconies, they're just really close companions.

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(I really am trying not to sound patronising, but it isn't working very well, sorry! Obviously, live your life however you like -- just don't go denying yourself experiences because they don't fit some romantic ideal. You'll find yourself collecting a list of crushes you never did anything about, which is just depressing.

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Eww... Haha, I just can't see myself getting THAT close to another guy... They're just best friend material :D

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You want to know the basics of love...? Read the featured story on my profile, "The Four Elements". It gives you a measuring stick to stack your relationships up against, and see how potentially successful they are. It will also allow you to identify what is wrong in a relationship.

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If your crush likes you, and ask you out; then it can lead to love

but if he doesn't ask you out; then it's only a crush.

like/Love should be mutual, but one of them should be a little more braver to ask the other out.

I had a crush in high school till he went off to college/university; I know he liked me but never did anything about it; and never asked me to go out; so he's definitely not the one. I'm over it; I got over it in 2002 when I saw the Gorgeous Man in the world; He did like me, but nothing happened either. It was bad time for him; I think he was separated at that time. When I met him; I felt spiritual and mental connection especially in his walk. I think this was more than a crush. I think he's my twin flame;soulmate; they say sometimes you don't end up with them in this life. You just meet them, and that's all. I say he was my twin flame.

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infatuation is different from love

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