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My friend is cheating on her boyfriend. Do I tell him?

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  1. youreyes2see - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by youreyes2see Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:37PM

    You need to talk with your girl friend and let her know it is bothering you that you know she is cheating. then go from there

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  2. cooney55 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by cooney55 Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:35PM

    That would be the kind and honorable thing to do... but how much do you value this friend? If you stab her in the back, you'll likely lose her. I would warn her first... "Knock it off, tell him, or I'm gonna". You don't really want a lying cheat for a friend, do you?

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  3. Hermey - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Hermey Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:33PM

    I'd have a talk with your friend, but other than that... I don't know if I'd get involved.

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  4. Jimzzz - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Jimzzz Aug 20th, 2012 at 10:57PM

    it's nunya....

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  5. clintonbill - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by clintonbill Aug 20th, 2012 at 5:12PM

    None of your business - keep out of it

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  6. Pagan1 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Pagan1 Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:58PM

    Other than secretly wanting him for yourself...
    why would you consider betraying a friends confidence?

    PS: Maybe she's a switch hitter & if you tell her the truth, she'll DO you too :)

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  7. luvtobeme123 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by luvtobeme123 Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:45PM

    yes!! cause he might no be your friend anymore because YOU NEVER TOLD HIM if you think about it in general is that being a friend? bam!

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  8. MyNameIsQ - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MyNameIsQ Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:42PM

    I would. You're not required to be an accomplice to someone else's misdeeds. Imagine, if you saw someone getting robbed, would you just not notify the person being robbed because it's "none of your business"? That's just such a bullshit cop-out I'm amazed people are even saying it. Think, would you want someone to know that your significant other was cheating on you and have them just keep it to themselves? You'd feel like you were being mocked behind your back, wouldn't you? Then why would you do that to someone else?

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  9. 8pops - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by 8pops Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:39PM

    Your not a true friend then if you tell

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  10. Spann0r - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Spann0r Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:39PM

    I wouldn't exactly go tell him, cause that would be like betraying my friend, but if her bf ever happens to ask me, I would not lie to him either. That's what I would tell my friend, so it's up to her to come clean or wait until I spill the beans.

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  11. rusted - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by rusted Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:37PM

    No, don't tell him. It's really none of your business if he knows or not.

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  12. NigelDoes - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by NigelDoes Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:36PM

    I'm don't think I would in your situation but I think I would probably lose a whole lot of respect for my friend. Cheating is extremely fukked up.

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  13. bvb1123 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by bvb1123 Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:36PM

    No...ît's always a bad idea to meddle in others relationships.

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  14. projectgemini - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by projectgemini Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:35PM

    Stay out of it

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  15. GwydionFrost - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by GwydionFrost Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:35PM

    Only if your friend is cheating on her boyfriend WITH YOU. Otherwise, tell your friend to do the right thing... either end it, or come out with it.

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  16. Idonwannadie - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Idonwannadie Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:34PM

    If you value his friendship, no. Unless it would be obvious you know, then drop hints.
    If you want to be romantically involved with him, no.

    In romantic affairs, bad news gets the messenger killed.

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  17. vazquezlala - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by vazquezlala Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:34PM

    if i were you, i would tell him, whether she's your friend or not, it's better for the both of them, to teach her a lesson and to save him. (':

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  18. dejaentendu90 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by dejaentendu90 Aug 20th, 2012 at 3:34PM

    no, mind your business.

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