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My friend is pregnant by another girls bf.she hasn't told her parents what do I do?

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  1. koolkatjossie - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by koolkatjossie May 12th, 2012 at 8:13PM

    It is her place to tell them. Stand by your friend. Things are going to get turf for her. She needs you and not to start problems. Stay strong and keep your cool.

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  2. koolkatjossie - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by koolkatjossie May 12th, 2012 at 8:24PM

    Stupid tablet! Things are going to get tuff.

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  3. skyman1 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by skyman1 May 12th, 2012 at 8:02PM

    GET PREGNANT ALSO.

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  4. YoloJOKES - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by YoloJOKES May 12th, 2012 at 8:59PM

    Dont do or day anything to anyone! All you can do is help your friend through the time. If you decide to tell the other girl or her bf, you could not only hurt them, but loose your friendship and trust with your friend thats pregnant

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  5. karakara1 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by karakara1 May 12th, 2012 at 8:45PM

    While you shouldn't be the one to tell anyone involved, that is her responsibility, you should try to offer her encouragement to come clean with everyone including her parents. The girlfriend will be better off knowing the truth that her boyfriend cheated on her and got the girl pregnant, he needs to learn he can't mess around and not have karma kick his ***, and so does your friend. People fail to do this all the time when it is so easy, but all you need to do is put yourself in the situation of your friend (the pregnant one) and see what she might be going through. Also think about your other friend who is the girlfriend. If you were her would you want to stay with a guy that had sex with someone else and got her pregnant? I also have no idea how old any of you are. If you all are young, this is an unfortunate thing but a valuable lesson is being taught to everyone. It's called consequences :) I think some of these answers are too tough. It seems too many are making judgments about your pregnant friend when the guy had a hand in this too. Not only that but he is the one that cheated. Hopefully he will be a man and do the right thing. And yes, if it is his advice and desire for her to end the pregnancy then he needs to cough up some cash for it. My advice is to encourage her as much as you can (in a caring way of course) to tell them. They will find out eventually. That stomach isn't going to stay flat and that baby isn't going to stay in her forever! :)

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  6. prettyintense27 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by prettyintense27 May 12th, 2012 at 8:37PM

    I would support my friend because that is what friends are for, through good and bad even if you don't agree with the circumstances, be her friend.

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  7. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree May 12th, 2012 at 8:06PM

    Not your place to do anything at all. It is her problem. She needs to deal with it. If she is your friend, you can just be there for her to give your moral support, but otherwise, stay out of it.

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  8. tominct1918 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by tominct1918 May 12th, 2012 at 8:04PM

    You support your friend when she is the time of need.

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  9. AlDemone - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by AlDemone May 12th, 2012 at 8:02PM

    Stay out of it.

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  10. Browneyes4322 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Browneyes4322 May 13th, 2012 at 2:35PM

    What else is there to do other than just be there for your friend? I'm sure that's enough.

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  11. sassyg1rl - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by sassyg1rl May 12th, 2012 at 8:09PM

    You do nothing.

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  12. sugarfooties - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by sugarfooties May 12th, 2012 at 8:04PM

    Stay out of it!

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  13. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by WhiteWidowess May 12th, 2012 at 8:03PM

    are you the other girl?

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  14. InexperiencedLiterally - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by InexperiencedLiterally May 12th, 2012 at 8:05PM

    No but I know the gf.! It kills me when I look at her

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  15. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by WhiteWidowess May 12th, 2012 at 8:09PM

    Sounds like you are friends with both girls. Getting involved is only gonna cause you to lose one of them as a friend. I would leave it alone.

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  16. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Posted by IMAGINATIONATWORK May 12th, 2012 at 8:02PM

    Why should you do anything

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  17. InexperiencedLiterally - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by InexperiencedLiterally May 12th, 2012 at 8:04PM

    B/c she told me this looking for guidance.plus I feel bad around her parents should I just not talk to het

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  18. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Reply by IMAGINATIONATWORK May 12th, 2012 at 8:06PM

    Be her friend, but this is between her parents, the guy, and not you

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