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And then last week she wants to go out to dinner before church. She then tells me she has breast cancer(I should say shes young 20s). I do care about her, and want her friendship, but Im not sure how to act. I want to be there for her but is she just using me?.....I am not very good at making friends, or keeping them for that matter.
Cas5iopia Cas5iopia 22-25, F 5 Answers Jul 25, 2012

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Regardless of whether or not she's using you, you still call her a friend, and so should be one to her. Just make sure you are not going to allow her to take advantage of you. Tell her that she can always ask you for help, and that you will do your best to help her when you can. Make sure that you're not the only source of support for her, or else she will demand a lot from you. Try to get her to reach out to others for support, like her family and other friends. Or those support groups.

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Thats a good idea with the not letting her take advantage of me. She has many friends and a boyfriend, but I have been letting her take advantage of me :) Thank you !

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She mite be thinking out loud....pertend not to hear her, and see what she ask of you...then start talking about something you want her to hear....

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I kinda like that idea Thanks :)

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I have many friends that don't like each other, but like being around me........

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That is a tough one....she could be reaching out to you or like you had said she just may be using you. Hard call without meeting her in person.

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Thanks :)

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I would give her the benefit of the doubt untill it really gets bad or if you find out she has been lying or if it just seems suspicious to the point that she asks for things that really put you out.

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shes not lying... she went into surgery today.....I just dont know where I sit with your friendship...

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Then stay with her. Even if your friendship is not strong it could become strong after showing that you can be there for her in such a hard time. She is most likely just looking for someone to just listen to her and be there to hear her out when she wants to vent. Or she may even want to listen to your problems to help her forget her own. It will make you feel better if you stick by her since she is so young and going through such a horrible ordeal

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