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My friend thinks i betrayed her because her ex boyfriend has fallen in love with me.?

all three of us were friends before they broke up because i worked with him. when she broke up with him she begged me to be there for him even though i was uneasy about it. his bestfriend died and suddenly i was all he had left and we were really there for each other, my friend decided to isolate herself from everyone because she was studying. and now she has a problem because he loves me and he told her himself that it was not intentional and he is not doing it to spite her. she thinks im untrustworthy now because she is makin it out as though i chose him over her wen i really havent. as soon as he told her he loved me i told her that even if felt the same way for him (which i do) i would never ever go for it because it would hurt her.

but she is now spreading lies to other people and is blamin me for everythin, stuff that has nothin to do with me at all. i dont know what to do im incredibly angry with her as well because i hav stopped all contact with him and she is still unhappy
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ZombieKitty
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 3:38PM
Chicks before dicks hon. You are so young and it is likely if you pursued a relationship with this guy, it won't last. Save your friendship! If she is a true friend, she will be there YEARS down the road with you, where as the guy will just be a bad memory. Good luck and *hugs!
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Shellfinder
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 10:21AM
I had a friend like that, who blamed me for their breakup, when in fact I had absolutely no interest in her ex boyfriend at all. He was a jerk and filling her head with nonsense and causing toxic waste between me and the friend. Later he got his lessons.
People like this are unforgiving and I mean for life.
Forget her.
Cause she will forget you for life.
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LadyBrighid
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 10:34AM
Your friend needs to grow up! She can't blame her life and her actions on others; she needs to take the blame for her actions!

As for you - if you are attracted to this guy; and he to you. Go for it! You only live once! If she can't accept it - screw her(not literally)!! Best of luck!
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Lacsar
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 10:05AM
yeah well......shoulda seen that one comin'..........you girls are jealous creatures by nature........if she's really your friend she'll want you to be happy ....... write her and tell her how you feel in the kindest possible manner - in time maybe she'll accept it and you can all be friends again......
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StarliteRose
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 10:54AM
If you weren't going to "go for it" (which I agree you shouldn't) why even tell her that? Didn't you think that would upset her?

There are so many guys in the world, don't mess around with your friends exes!

Also, don't mess around with guys on the rebound!
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denverguy
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 11:16AM
If you choose her over him and she still has problems with you and being mean to you then choose him and be happy!
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laceset
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 11:48AM
Woman code" DON'T DATE YOUR bEST FRIENDS BOYFRIEND! guys are a dime a dozen, Friends are very hard to find.
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robyn
Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 3:41PM
i don't agree that you're not supposed to date your friend's ex. they're OVER that relationship. your friend is immature.
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maskedmenace
Posted Aug 19th, 2009 at 7:14AM
go for him...ditch her! she is probavly jealous of u... i think she is still in love with his ex
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