My girlfriend does something behind my back on vacation, is this a red flag? (more details below on what happened)
An ex friend of mine used to hate my girlfriend, he caused severe problems with her and got people to hate her, and was being a jerk to me and causing bad problems in school all the time so i finally dropped him. After i stopped talking to him he became a stalker for a few months and then finally let go, and no, i am not gay. Anyway, his grandmother died and he has a sister that my girlfriend is (somewhat) friendly with but they are not close at all, just acquantances. Anyway, when i was on vaca my girlfriend went to the wake without calling me to tell me even though she knew it would upset me since mike (ex friend) was there and she would be showing her support after all of the hatrid and problems that he put me, my girlfriend and even her family through. So it seems like she was being shady since no one in her family likes anyone in their house. So why would my girlfriend get a ride to the wake? And purposely not tell me? It really makes me wonder whats going on. Please help, thanks.