That's stupid. I would stop initiating it and wait until he does.
If he's the man he thinks he is, he'd want to make the first move at least SOME of the time.
Don't!!! let him make the first move unless of course it's to kick his *** you go swing it girl!!
I'm guessing you've been married for awhile, huh?
maybe you should talk to him about your intimacy needs. Probably wont work cause it didnt for me but at least you can say to yourself that you tried to get your needs known.
My situation is the same but reversed, my wife allways expects me to make the first move. I've learned that even though 99 percent of the time any advances are rejected I'm still expected to make an attempt
Of course......they like to asked to the dance but at the same time would rather just sleep.
A 99 percent rejection rate ? I would drop her off at the nearest Chevy dealership and tell her she is being recalled. Trade her in for a new model. One that is more reliable.
That has to be awful.
You dont know the half of it Sadie
If I had a husband like yours the first move I would make is change the locks on the door when he is gone. He would find his butt homeless.
It does need to be shared. It's no good if only one always initiates. I guess he just fears being rejected
has he ever thought its time 2 seduce u?