Try the counseling..both of you are still grieving and counseling will help get some feelings out. It's a good sign that you both are willing to try...Best of luck :)
Go with him and find out what reconciliation is all about.
Try it if you both love each other and willing to give it a go, it's only counselling, you never know
sure, there's hope, if you both want it. Hard work, but with the right therapist hard work is not as hard.
You both definitely could benefit from counseling. Did you go through any grief counseling? I wish you the best.