Try the counseling..both of you are still grieving and counseling will help get some feelings out. It's a good sign that you both are willing to try...Best of luck :)
Go to counseling and give your relationship a try especially if both of you are willing to work it out.<br />
It's hard when you lose a child. I think you need healing at the same time.
In all honesty,the best thing you can do in the longrun is to leave him alone..Myself and a former partner lost an infant,and much as we were drawn back to each other because of our shared loss,every time we looked at each other it just brought it all back..Have some time with absolutely no contact,see if the love for one another is still there..
Go with him and find out what reconciliation is all about.
Try it if you both love each other and willing to give it a go, it's only counselling, you never know
sure, there's hope, if you both want it. Hard work, but with the right therapist hard work is not as hard.
You both definitely could benefit from counseling. Did you go through any grief counseling? I wish you the best.