My husband is having an affair with a married woman - thus I left. Would you tell her husband or thank her?
my 18 year marriage has ended. This is my husbands 3rd affair. He is charming and very persuasive when he is getting his way. He is emotionally abusive and demanding when he is not. I forgave him affair 1 and 2- Affair 3 was the straw. He is very attractive and has a way with the women; his story is always the same (he is the poor, misunderstood guy who just needs love...and its always someone else's fault.
Her family is beautiful; 4 kids and what appears to be a wonderful husband. I think my husband has "reeled her in" - I know he did with me (and the last 2 women he cheated on me with).
On the other hand, what kind of woman cheats on her husband with another woman''s man? what would you do - Thank her, do nothing, or tell her hubby (poor schmuck).