Leave. You don't want to be in a marriage where the guy is on the fence! It's just going to hurt your self-esteem and prolong the inevitable.
You can always be happy with someone else who will eat you out daily!
IF YOUR HUSBAND DECIDE TO LEAVE HE IS THE ONE WHO WILL LOOSE OUT ON YOU AND THE TWO KIDS. YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND ANOTHER PERSON TO TAKE HIS PLACE!!!!!!!!!!
SORRY I THOUGHT YOU HAD TWO!!!!!!!
It depends on why. What happened?
Well he must love you, but it sounds like he wants to have excitement again. If you are doing all you can on your part to keep things alive and exciting, but he's not responding, a separation might be best. He may quickly realize the grass isn't so green on the other side of that fence. Plus how would he feel if you totally agreed then went out with friends and enjoyed your new freedom? Best wishes whatever happens.
HE CANNOT HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!!!!!!!!!!
IIF YOU STAY THERE YOU HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THE BULL **** . IF YOU LEAVE HE WILL LOOSE OUT AND YOU ARE FREE!!!!!!!!!!
CAN YOU TELL WHAT THAT IS?
It sounds l8ke you guys just need a more open relationship let him **** some new girls and you **** new guys and when you guys tell each other the sex will be amazing
it has to be his decision; if he can't pick to stay with you, then maybe you both do need a trial separation from each other.