also ... i just bothered to read your experiences<br />
i would say he has already lost you<br />
dont make the mistake of losing yourself<br />
leave him and start over
Do you live a balanced life? Does he earn enough to support the household?
ask yourself this...is this what marriage is all about?
And why would you marry someone who thinks marriage is built upon the man making more than the woman?<br />
I'm not one for divorce, but this guy's a ******* *****.<br />
Do whatever you want. Though, I don't much see the reason behind the former...
I would be very, very careful here. <br />
I don't mean to be insulting, but an insecure man often becomes an abusive man. <br />
Do you really want to be caught jobless and financially dependent on a controlling/potentially abusive man, in this economy? :/<br />
My advice: You have a job, a rare thing nowadays, so keep it. Most likely your hubby is bluffing. Divorce is expensive; nobody in their right mind would spend thousands in court costs just to divorce a working spouse. <br />
Besides, if he loves you so little that he would leave you over his own bruised ego, he'll leave you sooner or later anyway. Better to be gainfully employed if and when that happens.
I say lose him,......... it is not worth the aggravation/suffocation later.
Choose your career luv. A career will never tell you he doesn't love you anymore. =D <br />
Plus he's bluffing. BELIEVE me he's bluffing. Been there got ALL my t-shirts. Now on the perchance he isnt...well as hurtful as it might be when he leaves..you will see that in the end you are better off without him. =)
hmm well u need a job especially if u love it <br />
u dont necessarily need him so keep the job and lose the dead weight
WOW. what a douche bag
"lose" seems to be interchangeable with "get rid of" in this context. Dump the chump.
right. what do you do ?...
This is an unbalanced ,dangerous situation, sister. Ask professionals!
He must be smoking cannabis and the smoke coming out of his ears like a boiling kettle,is he a bald head then get a source pan ,bang! To make things easier,what if you loose both after all,
How long have you two been married?<br />
I wouldn't marry anyone who'd TELL me to Stop working, OR tell me I MUST work. <br />
If you want to work, or if you want to stay home, that's your choice, imo. <br />
If it will cause a financial strain on your situation, I'd suggest to keep working.
stop working ? he should be happy you want too ! the extra money is neede these days ! good luck ! :-)