also ... i just bothered to read your experiences
i would say he has already lost you
dont make the mistake of losing yourself
leave him and start over
Do you live a balanced life? Does he earn enough to support the household?
as a guy who tends to have a bit of a complex (but didn't mind my wife earning more than me) there will always be something that will make him feel bad about himself unless he learns to cope with the issue. if it is bad enough that he is giving you ultimatums, maybe you should let him go, although how he'll feel better about himself if he's lost you is beyond me.
ask yourself this...is this what marriage is all about?
And why would you marry someone who thinks marriage is built upon the man making more than the woman?
I'm not one for divorce, but this guy's a ******* *****.
Do whatever you want. Though, I don't much see the reason behind the former...
I would be very, very careful here.
I don't mean to be insulting, but an insecure man often becomes an abusive man.
Do you really want to be caught jobless and financially dependent on a controlling/potentially abusive man, in this economy? :/
My advice: You have a job, a rare thing nowadays, so keep it. Most likely your hubby is bluffing. Divorce is expensive; nobody in their right mind would spend thousands in court costs just to divorce a working spouse.
Besides, if he loves you so little that he would leave you over his own bruised ego, he'll leave you sooner or later anyway. Better to be gainfully employed if and when that happens.
What if you stop working then he leaves you? You'll be screwed! Keep your job!
I say lose him,......... it is not worth the aggravation/suffocation later.
Choose your career luv. A career will never tell you he doesn't love you anymore. =D
Plus he's bluffing. BELIEVE me he's bluffing. Been there got ALL my t-shirts. Now on the perchance he isnt...well as hurtful as it might be when he leaves..you will see that in the end you are better off without him. =)
hmm well u need a job especially if u love it
u dont necessarily need him so keep the job and lose the dead weight
WOW. what a douche bag
"lose" seems to be interchangeable with "get rid of" in this context. Dump the chump.
right. what do you do ?...
He's an idiot. You're better off without him.
This is an unbalanced ,dangerous situation, sister. Ask professionals!
He must be smoking cannabis and the smoke coming out of his ears like a boiling kettle,is he a bald head then get a source pan ,bang! To make things easier,what if you loose both after all,
How long have you two been married?
I wouldn't marry anyone who'd TELL me to Stop working, OR tell me I MUST work.
If you want to work, or if you want to stay home, that's your choice, imo.
If it will cause a financial strain on your situation, I'd suggest to keep working.
why has he given these two things... like are you working so much that you never have time for him or something?
stop working ? he should be happy you want too ! the extra money is neede these days ! good luck ! :-)